My gf is going out with some old friends. They are a good group, apart from one fat girl who tends to throw her self as every male, until she comes across a guy/group who are drunk and horny enough.

I don't mind her going out, I told her she should go, but its just one girl who is a bad influence.

I feel that she says she needs more friends, is because she gets lonely when I am not with her. I provide a lot of fun.

However, I spend my Saturday nights working on my business with my friends. We own a bar, which is opened only 2 nights a week. IT provides us all with an extra source of income and provides some sort of financial freedom. Plus I enjoy spending time with my friends.

One on hand im worried her loneliness will lead her to do what her fat friend does, on the other hand, If a girl is going to cheat she is going to cheat. There is nothing you can do.

I just don't want to spend 7 days a week with my GF, I have other goals in life. Plus I think some times apart really helps a LTR. I do enjoy her company, we live together. But a day apart for me helps keep the realationship healthy.

Our sex life is healthy. 2/3 times a week, and she starts it. She will never turn done sex, unless she is ill/on period.

What it comes down to is that in my younger days I have been that single guy who has hand many one night stands with girls who are cheating on there BF/husbands. They are easy targets because you are only competing with one guy.