Got my oneitis but hate myself every second i'm in a LTR with her

Archwinger · 2017-03-03T21:01:04+00:00

Make her a plate instead. You already know she's not special. So why not actually experience that she's not special?

If you don't want to be with her, have FUN with her. Keep fucking her brains out and keep your balls drained, all while cultivating other women. Move on when you're sick of her, she becomes difficult, or you don't have the time due to other women.

Treat her the same way she's treating you. Go through the motions, have some fun sex, find other partners, cheat or leave if you find something better.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2017-03-04T13:05:28+00:00

Once a self-doubter, always a self-doubter.

Take a deep breath, then tell her to come over, fuck her brains out until you both pass out. rinse, repeat.

Cool your jets in a big way, dude. Deal with potential problems with her, when and if they arise. You're fully capable of handling shit if you so choose. Refuse to think otherwise.

If she's doing valuable things for you to your life, following your leadership, and fucking you good whenever, then there's no actual problem.

but after i leave to go home i just hate myself...this all cuz i know all of TRP truths and i can't see this working out

Good, at least you're no worse than you were before. Now you know that no woman on earth can rescue you from your own self-doubt and self-pity.

It's not her fault you obsessively question and second guess everything that happens to you, and look for ways to sabotage yourself.

smirk_addict · 2017-03-04T15:20:39+00:00

You aren't being completely honest. You made a post two months ago pretty much saying the complete opposite. You also made a post about stalking this girl. Now you are angry at yourself like she did something to you, because you were too erratic and unstable to make rational decisions. Dude you need a therapist. Or maybe just somebody to punch you in the face.

MrTyler_Durden · 2017-03-03T21:20:01+00:00

You're not special to her in any way. This chick will cheat on you. Spend a day eating a bunch of food, high calorie high carb and drink a bunch of water. Then that night invite her over and fuck the ever living shit out of her all night. Put her through a marathon blow her fucking mind. And then the next day tell her you need some space and breakup. Then go game some other chicks and move on.

And make sure you fuck that ass too.

aurelius_shrugs · 2017-03-03T21:17:50+00:00

Set up a situation where you slam her at her place, play her out for anal then afterwards, get up and say you're going to the bathroom to clean up but actually, lock the bathroom door from the inside and sneak out the bathroom window and go hard no contact, delete and block on everything.

aurelius_shrugs · 2017-03-03T21:38:10+00:00

Get more women dummy

silver-gun · 2017-03-03T21:21:05+00:00

Man, what stops you to kick her out of your life? Like, completely disconnecting from her. Not seeing, calling, texting, stalking at all.

TRP_MushaShugyo · 2017-03-03T22:24:44+00:00

Do you specifically hate yourself because you know how pitifully BP you were before, and how this girl knew you as pathetically BP? So you feel she could never really have a "pure" impression of you due to your wimpy-ass past with her? So you kind of inadvertently lose confidence in your future with her because she could never truly 100% trust your masculinity due to this? I'm a totally different person from the BP bitch I was with my oneitis, and whenever I imagine somehow getting with her and establishing frame, even if the butterflies never came back, I often imagine that I would feel like this. Almost like, after being such an embarrassing doormat, kind of thinking, 'what's the point?'

quicklogaccount · 2017-03-03T21:17:15+00:00

Well, leave if you want to. The problem is in you though, not on her. She didn't pull shit on you. She pulled women being women on you, you just failed to pull men being men on her for way too long. You're just pissed because she's not as special as she'd need to be to make up for your waste of efforts and oneitis altogether.
This sux, but you won't bond to her. If you do, it'll be out of scarcity.

Get over it and enjoy your ride, take /u/Archwinger's advice. Downgrade to plate. If it is that new it's probably feasible. If you fail, well, you haven't lost shit.

Title	Got my oneitis but hate myself every second i'm in a LTR with her
Author	ev3atmuzique
Upvotes	8
Comments	17
Date	March 3, 2017 8:58 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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