I see a lot of posts and comments on this subreddit about how high n-count women have difficulty pair-bonding. Everything I've seen so far only cite controversial studies or just make a blanket statement.

I'm not disputing that this is the case. My latest ex-LTR had an n-count of 15, and I always questioned her genuine desire. She couldn't open her mouth to express affection, she never explicitly initiated sex, blowjobs were scarce, and she would sometimes reject my sexual advances. I ended the relationship because of this nagging feeling that she couldn't truly pair-bond. My first LTR had an n-count of 1 before me, and she was the opposite; initiated sex a lot, expressed her affection verbally, etc. Now, I know this is just 2 data points, so not enough to draw a firm conclusion.

So let's see. Folks on here who've had multiple LTRs with low/high n-count women, share your experiences. Have you been able to anecdotally confirm this theory or suspicion that high n-count women have difficulty pair-bonding?