long story short when my ex cheated on me it really killed my self esteem. You see, in australia, there are a lot of good looking tradies. Tall, tanned buffed up, tattoos etc. They seem to attract girls really easily. Anyway my ex gilfriend goes to a gym where thre are a lot of guys like thsis and she ended up cheating on me with a dude who is buff, tall etc. I felt really horrible and unfortunately after a year i still feel really bad. I know i should think - good , who cares about that hoe. But the problem is i have developed deep insecurities now and i think to myself i'm not good enough and i dn't have the same genetics as these dudes. Like i can't compete. I'm not good enough. How do i handle these feelings and stop comparing myself?