Basically, I have alot of hobbies I'm good at, like painting, writing, rollerblading, but I'm not a legend at them. Like, I paint minatures pretty damn good, but they aren't warhammer tier. I have a 20k word novel in the works, but it's not 120k completed. I can go down hill fast as shit, but I cant do tricks.

I've been told I need to pick one and focus on it, but when I do that I feel constrained and then flop back to my other hobbies, or don't do any of them.

Any tips, besides time and effort?