How do I decipher this

fnordsnord · 2015-07-22T16:55:06+00:00

"Likes spontaneous" is also code for "I have to convince my hamster that getting laid is not my fault, so that I don't feel like a slut."

Whatever approach you use has to be indirect and subtle. If it looks planned, expect a lot of Anti-Slut Defense and Last Minute Resistance.

NidStyles · 2015-07-22T16:41:57+00:00

Step 1, read up on IOI's. If she is talking about sex with you, she's thought about it already.

Zeparic · 2015-07-22T16:55:17+00:00

Stop asking yourself what she wants, or what she's ready for. What you want is to slay some fucking poon, yeah? If you start tiptoeing around for the sake of emotional satiation from the get-go you'll develop oneities.

You are a man, she is a woman. Your sexual imperative is to fuck bitches, her sexual imperative is to lock down a worthy man. The longer you spend not fucking her the more you're losing.

That said, she wont give you the sex. A worthy man takes what's his.

If you're new to this set a time limit.

"If this bitch doesn't open to my sexual advances after a day/3 days/a week then I'm obviously doing something wrong, so let me get out before I waste any more of my precious time."

Soft next her, analyze what you did wrong, and look for other women.

If you're worth anything at all, this will ignite dread game and keep her coming back.

Even if you can't decipher her attraction you can determine your standing using this method.

SkorchZang · 2015-07-22T17:34:09+00:00

I didn't wanna move to fast knowing this

There's no "too fast for this girl", there's only as fast as you can manage versus getting fucking nothing. Those are the two choices.

Trying to "take it slow" for her sake is like going out to race some other men round the track (with her watching) and then deciding to come in last to show your true, humble and loveable nature. She'll be sure to notice an appreciate that, as we know. Not!

What she is actually telling you ("I like spontaneous") is: dude you have to make it happen without talking at me about it. Seduce me, don't negotiate me. It has to always be your fault that we fucked. I was an innocent angel snowflake just hanging out with you big bad wolf, and it just happened...surprising us both (even though I expect you planned all the logistics in advance to make it comfy and amazing for me to pretend like it was spontaneous)

Title	How do I decipher this
Author	btharmony
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Comments	11
Date	July 22, 2015 4:19 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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