How do I increase my duration during sex?

SaladThunder · 2018-04-06T13:34:16+00:00

I picture Vince Young in the 2005 national championship. Play-by-play.

semirelevantknt · 2018-04-06T14:11:13+00:00

Is this a joke? 20 min piv is above the normal limit. If you want to improve your sex game read sexgod method.

mrpthrowa · 2018-04-06T12:51:30+00:00

There is a lot of bullshit about how long you should last etc. As ever, you shouldn't listen to what women and internet kiddies say on this.

Here is the run down.

Actual sex is probably half an hour in most cases. Probably an hour if you're feeling like it. PIV is may be 10-15 minutes. Can be as low as 3 minutes if I haven't fucked for a few days.

Most of my sessions are 30 minutes to 1 hour, quickies can be as short as 10 minutes.

That 30 minutes so is real intense dominating stuff. By the end of it some girls literally tremble. I've had many tell me "I feel FUCKED" after that.

PIV for more than 15 minutes is fucking painful. How people claim to do it I have no idea. My cock feels fucking sore after that.

No doubt I'll see people bragging about how they last longer and what not. Well fuck you, I don't have all day, I have shit to do. 30 minutes-1 hour then I'm on my way doing my stuff. All the girls I've fucked keep asking for it again so you can go fuck yourself.

redpillthrowaway1214 · 2018-04-06T12:51:29+00:00

I've got 5 tips for you:

Body positioning: This can have a huge effect on this. If you're holding yourself up with your arms you'll cum a lot quicker. For example: if you're in missionary and you're using your arms as support vs sitting more upright and holding onto her body.
General stimulation increase over time. More specifically, going from her stroking you, to BJ and then to penetration will allow much more control vs going straight in (this is just a general rule). Personally I have issues staying hard when she's on top so I'll have her skip the BJ if she's going to do that. This ties into 3.
Edging: Get close to the point of cumming and back off. Sometimes this is hard to do because your girl is saying shit like "don't stop" and "harder" but you control the sex and if you don't wanna finish then don't. The more times you edge the more intense you can go and eventually you'll get to a point where you can really control it. Listen to your body. If you feel like you can't go without cumming then go down on her for a bit and then go back to penetration.
Motion when thrusting: some movement besides in and out helps a lot. It gives her more stimulation and helps you last longer. Typically I'll try and give it some upward motion to hit the upper wall. Different girls enjoy different spots too.
Breathe: This was a big one for me. Idk why but I would tense up and forget to breathe and then I'd cum really quickly. This might be common knowledge but I thought I'd include.

As with any skill, you'll get better at this over time with practice and don't forget to have fun, it's way more fun when you're in control vs thinking of dead bodies or some shit to stop from blowing your load.

EvanPetersDouble · 2018-04-06T12:23:06+00:00

Hard to explain.

It's basically a form of DGAF, seen in American Psycho. Don't sit there thinking how hot a girl is etc, but focus more on other things like trying to break her. Or maybe i'm just advocating being a psycho, idk

CapIshmael · 2018-04-06T12:23:27+00:00

Kegels and PC exercises.

Morphs_ · 2018-04-06T15:59:24+00:00

20 minutes is more than enough, especially if you're able to stay hard the entire time.

Although I tend to last longer, I'm not particularly happy with it. Because it can feel like a drag, erection randomly disappears, etc.

Take your time with foreplay, and try to focus on her during sex, see if you can make her come through penetration.

party_dragon · 2018-04-06T20:08:20+00:00

It's enough. You're enough. You've made it, you're good enough. Focus on your own pleasure now.

aurelius_shrugs · 2018-04-06T18:10:29+00:00

Cum on her face and take a nap. How long does that take?

TurnDownForWhat · 2018-04-06T22:12:04+00:00

Jerk off prior to fucking her. Get the easy nut out and let the bitch work for the hard nut. Game. Set. Match.

mrpthrowa · 2018-04-06T12:51:21+00:00

There is a lot of bullshit about how long you should last etc. As ever, you shouldn't listen to what women and internet kiddies say on this.

Here is the run down.

Actual sex is probably half an hour in most cases. Probably an hour if you're feeling like it. PIV is may be 10-15 minutes minutes. Can be as low as 3 minutes if I haven't fucked for a few days.

Most of my sessions are 30 minutes to 1 hour, quickies can be as short as 10 minutes.

That 30 minutes so is real intense dominating stuff. By the end of it some girls literally tremble. I've had many tell me "I feel FUCKED" after that.

PIV for more than 15 minutes is fucking painful. How people claim to do it I have no idea. My cock feels fucking sore after that.

No doubt I'll see people bragging about how they last longer and what not. Well fuck you, I don't have all day, I have shit to do. 30 minutes-1 hour then I'm on my way doing my stuff. All the girls I've fucked keep asking for it again so you can go fuck yourself.

PhaedrusHunt · 2018-04-06T17:15:32+00:00

Change positions. Switch from penetration to oral to manual as well.

Entropy-7 · 2018-04-06T17:37:50+00:00

View it as a process rather than cumming as the goal. If you enjoy fucking for fucking itself then you can go forever and only cum when you decide.

nappy_poontang · 2018-04-06T18:13:48+00:00

I don’t last that long either. But I don’t fucking care and neither does my girl. Know why? My LTR is moaning, screaming, and trembling for 30+ minutes before my penis ever goes in. She cums multiple times.

Most women don’t get a great physical pleasure from piv. It’s more psychological: nurturing, comforting. The biggest way to pleasure a women is to use your hands and mouth.

Do yourself a favor and read this:

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/0060538260/ref=mp_s_a_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1523038003&sr=8-1&pi=AC_SX236_SY340_QL65&keywords=she+comes+first&dpPl=1&dpID=51WSzjcZuSL&ref=plSrch

RPLawyer · 2018-04-06T18:27:43+00:00

20 minutes of PIV is more than enough.

Rollo_Mayhem3 · 2018-04-06T21:54:30+00:00

Stand on your feet will give u more control. So bend her over the bed or any thing else or lean against the wall. Try it.

TheOriginalBigApp · 2018-04-07T01:11:42+00:00

48M here. My advice to help you last longer is simple: let me fuck her for you. J/K. Seriously though, don’t piss beforehand unless you’re about to explode. Your mind will be more focused on not pissing and your dick nerves will dulled a little because it want to relieve itself.

Ricklogical · 2018-04-06T15:38:02+00:00

If you want to go longer, get off before you have sex with her, like 20 minutes before you have sex go rub one out.

For me the more often I get off, the harder it is the next time till I give it an 8 hour break...

Also many women like to be fucked hard and fast. If you go too long, no matter how good it is most women get bored. It's just sex man. Giving them too much too often will normalize it and make it lame.

Dio_Brando_Joestar · 2018-04-06T13:38:13+00:00

Meditation. Keeps you in the present and less in your head.

Title	How do I increase my duration during sex?
Author	EvanPetersDouble
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Comments	61
Date	April 6, 2018 12:17 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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