How does a woman's n-count devalue her?

noobforlife · 2015-04-24T15:58:02+00:00

I agree with you that girls who know their way around a dick are fun to have sex with since they know how to get me off well.

However, the topic becomes relevant in an LTR or marriage context. A woman with a higher count generally has a harder time pair bonding and will constantly compare you to her previous lovers in terms of performance and adequacy. If you are her best lay then this poses less of a problem. However, the more previous partners she has had the less likely that will be the case.

Another consideration which isn't mentioned very often is that women with very high partner counts have had a harder time securing commitment from the men they have and are sleeping with (again speaking generally). You would think if she was this awesome girl and a guy slept with her that he would want to keep her around instead of pumping and dumping.

This point is important since it can indicate a problem with the woman (personal issues, infidelity, promiscuity) which all pose as potential issues if you are planning to pursue a monogamous relationship with her. You have to ask yourself why the other men she slept with did not commit to her for very long or at all and if those reasons are valid and relevant to you.

Again all of the above considerations do not matter much if you are just planning to pursue a purely fuckbuddy arragement. In fact her experience with dicks would prove an asset (barring potential STDs) since she would fuck well. In the end it depends on what your expectations of the relationship are.

1NV0K3R · 2015-04-24T15:16:30+00:00

You're implying you need to have a lot of partners to be good at sex.

While not initially true, this is like saying a dog needs a lot of owners to be a good dog.

RPmatrix · 2015-04-24T17:28:26+00:00

I'm inclined to agree with OP but as I rarely 'pair bond' with a women for more than 18-24mths max (over 6 LTR's) I too have my scientific hypothesis on why this is the case, selfish gene type stuff

abdada · 2015-04-24T14:50:54+00:00

A woman is the gatekeeper to sex -- if she has a high n-count, she is a poor gatekeeper of your most valuable asset.

The same is true about a guy who gives commitment to women freely (beta bucks, friendzone, etc) -- he has low value.

truchisoft · 2015-04-24T18:44:49+00:00

From my experience, experience with other males will not make a woman better in sex, but how much trust she has in you, or, how much alpha she feels you.

Also, chemistry and personality. I am dating a girl witch seemingly had not much experience (debuted at 27, supposedly), but once she fully engaged with me, after a couple of months, has become a beast in bed, much better than any girl I dated before, and I had the luck to date girls with very high libidos.

higher N-count means a higher Alpha Widow chance

vandaalen · 2015-04-24T19:28:46+00:00

How does a high number of prepossessors devalue a car?

If it's a rental car nobody gives a shit, but if you are going to buy it, it's worth giving a fuck.

micky2D · 2015-04-24T14:51:46+00:00

A key that opens a lot of locks is a master key, a lock that is opened by a lot of keys is a shity lock.

NoRegretj · 2015-04-24T15:21:43+00:00

Ruins their ability to pair bond as oxytocin release during sex is blocked by testosterone, thus much less of a damaging effect on men.

Yes down vote science on TRP

evilquesadilla · 2015-04-24T18:48:58+00:00

I'm with you. High n-count at best is a possible indication of other problems, but by itself is not a problem for me. Low n-count is also a possible indicator of other problems, like for example, unusual sexual inhibition, etc.

I've learned that to function well in a society, by default you have to conform. You don't have to, but you better have a good reason for it, and be prepared to suffer the consequences. So the best n-count to have is "average", whatever that means, because unusually high or low both make people assume things... you are not "conforming".

So for me, "unusual" n-count would make me take a second look, but by itself I will not discount a woman simply for that. I will still consider her personality, sanity, and most importantly, compatibility with me separately from her n-count.

I sleep around when I'm single. So I can't fault anyone else for doing the same thing.

rlh1271 · 2015-04-24T18:10:30+00:00

How does a woman's n-count devalue her?

The general idea is when a woman sleeps with a lot of men, they make shit long-term partners. Plate but do not LTR, and for the love of god do not marry.

Maybe it's because I have a high n-count myself so I don't feel intimidated.

It's has nothing to do with intimidation. It's about finding a woman who understands commitment. If you're not looking for commitment, high n-counts are fine.

Why are TRP men undervaluing chicks who know their way around a dick?

The fuck? Undervaluing them in terms of what? Sluts make fine plates. Just don't get commit to them.

Furthermore, theres a significant correlation between a chick's attractiveness and how many guys she's fucked. I'm just saying.

Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. The best of the best find the highest value men and stick with them. You're describing 7's and 8's that fuck around to convince themselves they're 9's and 10's. You need to read the sidebar more.

prodigyx · 2015-04-24T16:28:27+00:00

A girl's N-count is impossible to know, so what is the point of thinking about it? The whole N-count discussion on this sub is just one big circle-jerk.

Title	How does a woman's n-count devalue her?
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Date	April 24, 2015 2:44 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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