I always end up getting into confrontations when I go out at night. Sometimes when I’m approaching women, other dudes get aggressive. I’m also just not a super friendly dude, so sometimes dudes just pick up on that. It’s usually just banter that escalates.

I don’t usually back down because I don’t want to look like a pussy. How can I avoid fights with my dignity?

I just got smacked up the other night because of it, and I’d like to avoid major brain damage. Usually I have way more to lose than the other people.

I’m average height, cut but skinny.