How To Be Aggressive

Folknust · 2020-02-20T19:02:06+00:00

Don’t be passive. Don’t be aggressive. Be assertive.

akema94 · 2020-02-20T20:08:55+00:00

Best way to create sexual attraction imo is eye contact. Look deeply into her eyes as she talks and think about fucking her, while keeping an open, relaxed posture. Chicks pick up on this instinctively and if she's attracted to you she'll get hella turned on. Kino will seem natural from this point onwards. When I do this, chicks will talk non-stop for the whole date and I barely need to say anything. It's all in the subtext.

More importantly however, you have a fear of rejection/failure which is completely normal. Gotta put yourself out there and experience rejection to get over it. Also make sure your sleep, diet, gym and progress towards goals is on point. This will ensure a healthy level of self-esteem. I meditate as well, probably helped me the most tbh.

2020-02-20T19:42:57+00:00

Go your own way and say fuck you (metaphorically) to everyone who tries to stop you.

Nobody gives a shit about you. You are the only one who (should) truly give a shit about your life.

Don't let anyone tell you what you should think. What you should do.

Be commanded by your reason and not by the external forces that hit this world. And trust me, you are going to fight a lot before realizing most people don't want to see you succeed.

nexther · 2020-02-20T19:47:07+00:00

The only way to know if the stuff you think you know is valuable, is to go out and approach with it.

Also the guys who get laid the most get rejected the most.

Never expect girls to initiate... it’s not there thing. It’s your job. If you want to get anything done, you’ve got to initiate.

Logical_Insurance · 2020-02-20T18:57:38+00:00

Any tips, books, TRP post that will help a brother out guys ?

Make a specific and actionable goal for the next time you are on a date.

Think it through and visualize it first, visualize it going positively.

Then do it. Something simple, like putting your hand on her arm and saying "hey, let me show you this thing."

Something you can picture yourself doing. Start with something simple, some kind of caress. Go from there. Just remember that if she isn't into it - that's a GOOD THING! You're finding out she's not attracted earlier, and can quit wasting time and don't have to get verbally rejected as much.

akema94 · 2020-02-20T18:46:54+00:00

NMMNG get recommended a lot, I have yet to read it

thrwy75479 · 2020-02-20T19:20:41+00:00

I don't act enough

Take up some form of fight training (BJJ, boxing, etc.). It forces you to be in the present. You'll learn how to act quickly, or get your ass kicked.

RPNorvell · 2020-02-20T23:08:27+00:00

Thinkingard · 2020-02-21T02:14:00+00:00

Stop fapping so that you are naturally hornier. Dinner date? Get a booth. Escort her to it with your arm out. Halfway through the date, tell her you want to show her something you recently saw on your phone. Squeeze in next to her. Keep talking, keep the date going, have a few drinks. Start to slowly touch her, her hand, or jewelry, point it out, make a comment, whatever. Brush her hair behind her ear, tell her you're fixing her hair. Eventually you get in close, like 6 inches, as if you are going in for the kiss, but you hold it, you don't go straight in. You back off and resume conversation. You do this a few times, gauge her interest, is she pulling away? Is she comfortable with you closer and closer? Build her anticipation. When you go in for it, she will be ready. Don't french her, and don't make out for too long. It's the setting, the beginning, of the passion you are showing her you will bring.

1m2rad2b4got10 · 2020-02-21T05:58:38+00:00

Read/audible "How to Win Friends and Influence People" and "The Like Switch." Those will give you a good foundation for dealing with people.

Watch and emulate charismatic people.

Keep lifting - testosterone is the key to assertiveness.

shadowentityrising · 2020-02-21T06:11:16+00:00

Read the sidebar. All of it.

secureMPC · 2020-02-21T11:36:01+00:00

Any tips, books, TRP post that will help a brother out guys

You don't get results by contemplating. You already know what you must do, so do it.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2020-02-21T12:54:21+00:00

Jesus.

You've been told, and you know that you think and don't 'do'.

Now you want a book to help you 'do'. Think about the irony of that.

A book won't help you 'do'. A book will help you read.

When you're next with a girl...reach out and...touch her.

This isn't rocket science.

frognads · 2020-02-20T22:29:01+00:00

Put out your hands. When she grabs them put her hands around your neck. Put your hands around her waist. Kiss her. Real fucking easy kid.

Title	How To Be Aggressive
Author	akema94
Upvotes	12
Comments	30
Date	February 20, 2020 6:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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