Hello;

New country, Out of a relationship, have lots of hobbies that can use alone (reading, video games, watching movies, working out, cycling, etc) but i always feel incredibly alone. I am alone in the romantic sense (missing having a woman in my life) and the friendship sense ( tight friends are hard to get by, especially in your 30s)

How to be ok being alone? not have the pain of not having people in your life? (while maintaining sociability. I don't want to be a loner)