Hello. I have a remote LTR and I can't break it. I've tried some days ago and it was a lot of crying from her, I didn't have the heart to end it. I was pretty sad too. I think I also have fear to be alone. But I'm not in love with this girl, and I don't see her often (3-4 months a year). I don't see a future with her.

Mentally, I'm looking for a way to break up that doesn't involve her crying and me feeling a lot of guilt.

Ideas?

I know: be a man and tell her. I've tried and failed. I'm looking for a more beta approach: being a pussy, becoming very beta until she leave me or something like that. Ideally I'd like that she leave me. Or maybe find a reason that is not "I don't like you anymore" because it sounds horrible and will make her cry.