how to get over penis insecurity

Beegoop · 2018-05-02T18:54:40+00:00

By realizing that male pornstars are pornstars because they (unlike the heavy majority of men) have huge dicks.

Stop watching porn, and if you can't do that, at least watch amateur porn. Realize that porn is a fantasy, not everyone has a monster dick - the average is about 5 inches anyway.

cenie · 2018-05-02T19:40:40+00:00

5 inches is about average. You need to understand that he will be with you for the rest of your life, so get over it.

iCeeYouP · 2018-05-02T20:36:38+00:00

How do you get over hating that the sky is blue? Since you cannot change it (i.e. your penis size), just get over it and work with it.

HannibalBacara · 2018-05-02T22:38:49+00:00

5 inches is perfectly normal.

Just try to realize women basically have no idea of size anyways and almost always overestimate.

A few months into the relationship with my ex I asked her how big she thought my dick was. She said 8 inches lol (I wish). I'm generally around 6 inches, rising up another quarter inch if I'm really really aroused.

Point being is 5 inches is fine. Also, getting in amazing shape will make it seem bigger because having a lot of fat around the pubic hair area covers it up a bit.

Also sex is more about hitting angles and rhythm than about pure size from my experience talking to women. I'm pretty open about sex and basically all of my plates have been with guys bigger than me. But who are they texting to come dick them down at 2am on a saturday night? Me. Read Sex God Method and learn how to fuck them right. Making a girl orgasm and feel like she is having amazing sex is 50% mental 50% physical stimulation. Set an aggressive dominant tone while dirty talking her and be generally competent with your thrusting and you'll make her cum.

Some men have performance issues because they're just nervous. Think about it... it's evolution. Our bodies are wired to send blood to more vital areas of the body when we enter an adrenaline filled fight or flight mode. Millions of years ago did our genetic predecessors want blood being sent to their cocks instead of their hearts when they were running away from a saber toothed tiger or some shit?

Just try to think about the responses here and that you have an average dick. Perfectly fine for 95% of girls. Some girls are size queens yes, but it's a small fraction.

SeamusAwl · 2018-05-02T19:09:19+00:00

So I have about a 5 inch dick and I've always been insecure about it

So you are average. Congrats. The average vagina is only 3.77 inches deep. I am pretty sure that your average 5 inches can fill that up.

nappy_poontang · 2018-05-02T22:21:23+00:00

Make a girl orgasm multiple times with your fingers and mouth and she won’t give a fuck if you have a 1” dick.

Worry about the shit you can control like learning how to perform better before you even put it in instead of worrying about shit you can’t control like your dick that isn’t even small.

mikeyp_88 · 2018-05-02T21:24:56+00:00

I’m 6 and never had a problem before. There are many sex positions that will make your penis feel bigger inside of her. During pickup I usually say I have an average penis and I’m proud of it, I never set the bar to high for myself

E_Rico700 · 2018-05-02T21:30:04+00:00

Lexapro

huge_gap · 2018-05-02T22:32:56+00:00

Believe me your dick could be two inches and you coud still fuck a girl hard and make her cum. It's all in your head dude. Stop focusing on how SHE feels. Focus on your own pleasure and busting a nut. When you shift your mindset from pleasing her to pleasing yourself everyone wins.

Peter_B_Long · 2018-05-02T23:52:30+00:00

You just gotta accept it and just focus on what you can be impressive with. Impress her with how hard you are. Impress her with how long you can last. Impress her with how hard you can fuck her.

PhaedrusHunt · 2018-05-03T00:59:35+00:00

Take those pills ron Jeremy sells

FUCK_YEA_GLITTER · 2018-05-03T01:20:18+00:00

Try and worry about things you can actually control in your life, and I guarantee you won't care at all. Girls will be all over you. This isn't just a dick insecurity, this is a general insecurity. It could be losing your hair, being ugly or whatever. If you become the best you, as cliche as it sounds you will have a way better time handling this insecurity, and satisfying your women. After all, sex is like 80% mental

cudder17 · 2018-05-02T19:37:06+00:00

Going through the same thing. What I try to keep in mind is that I'm fucking her for MY pleasure, not hers, who gives a fuck what she thinks?

darkkramer · 2018-05-02T22:12:38+00:00

Bathmate and jelqing

Title	how to get over penis insecurity
Author	holdmybeerbrahh
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Date	May 2, 2018 6:50 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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