How to keep girlfriend interested? Any advice?

KeffirLime · 2019-05-25T15:25:19+00:00

Locking down a man is a females inherent strategy, yours is to spread your seed. She should be worrying about how to keep you interested, and incentivizing you to continue to sacrifice your biological imperative.

The fact that this is not happening means your relationship is ass backwards and there are more fundamental issues at play.

Start dreading her, start taking control, start leading, stop giving her so much comfort.....or leave because it seems you're not necessarily ready for an LTR.

EclipseMain · 2019-05-25T15:29:41+00:00

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AWorseManThanYou · 2019-05-25T15:17:16+00:00

Sidebar. Visit MRP and sidebar there too. MRP should be your home if you’re LTRing over a year.

Kalikoenig · 2019-05-26T02:43:54+00:00

Read 3% Man by Cory Wayne. Go watch some of his videos. After reading his book 3 times, the long term relationship part is starting to make so much sense. It's a whole different game than short term flings.

Long story short, if she withdraws, you withdraw. You make sure she's doing 80%-100% of the text/phone call initiations. If it's 50/50, she won't think you're a challenge and lose interest. Girls needs to chase in LTRs to value you. If she does something disrespectful, call her out on it in a calm, matter of fact way. Lastly, don't confess your feelings or get butt hurt all the time. Girls want a man who will schedule dates, hang out, have fun, and have sex. If you're getting butthurt or needy, this is the opposite of having fun.

Seriously, go read the book 5 times.

X--Man · 2019-05-25T15:17:47+00:00

Tell her you want to see other people. Then see other people.

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-05-25T16:57:13+00:00

You need to up your self improvement as much as possible, lift, be on your purpose and dread game. She should be pining for you, not the other way.

BigDickEnergy123 · 2019-05-25T17:11:43+00:00

Make her more invested in you.

Every single time I've cared more about a relationship working out, I inherently fucked it up.

Every time I've stopped giving shit about a girl, she would do almost anything to keep me around.

Basically, make her do more work than you, but sprinkle in little things from time to time. Such as affection, gifts, dates. Don't do any of these if she has shitty behavior towards you. Only after she basically "proves" herself to you. Otherwise, she'll take it and you for granted.

Also, stop texting them as much. Make them come to you.

nexther · 2019-05-25T17:31:10+00:00

Always have some mild dread, keep her on the edge, do fun and exciting things that other guys don’t do...

Title	How to keep girlfriend interested? Any advice?
Author	Vernalire
Upvotes	3
Comments	25
Date	May 25, 2019 3:12 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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