How to kill ego

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2019-04-24T18:02:10+00:00

You got it all wrong. You don't want to kill your ego you want it to be so big and strong any time somebody comes at you it's like they're throwing rocks at a giant. Then you just shrug it off if you even notice it at all. Most times I've had people try to insult me or something like that it either amuses me or I just don't even think anything of it. Ants.

Kalikoenig · 2019-04-24T18:51:25+00:00

If a girl pulls away, you pull away. She either comes back, or she doesn't. Yes, it hurt sometimes, but don't waste your time on a girl who doesn't value you. I am learning this one the hard way. Chasing will only push her away if she's started pulling away already. 9/10 times if you don't chase, she'll reach out in a week or two.

Project_Zero_Betas · 2019-04-24T22:40:26+00:00

When things go south though, I get really emotional. I get scared of losing her which really puts me down and I start thinking that I have deep feelings for her. This doesn't of course happen with every girl I date, I've gotten ghosted many times and couldn't have cared less, it happens only with the ones that I've spent a lot of time with.

This is why you need to keep abundance and don't hesitate to next. You're falling victim to textbook sunk cost bias. If anything, your ego is necessary to help realize the bias at play, last thing you should do is "kill" it.

TRP8myfeels · 2019-04-24T17:41:53+00:00

Do you lift? Lifting has a strong effect on your ability to control your emotions.

CanaryCherryJewel · 2019-04-24T23:22:18+00:00

Don’t be hard on yourself but also don’t go easy on yoyrself either.

Title	How to kill ego
Author	Nfuckedmeup
Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	April 24, 2019 5:32 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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