Hi all,

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I could really use some guidance right now.

So I've known this girl for over a year now, she is really nice, nice to talk to etc. (bit of a party girl, drinks and parties way more than I do).

She has been trying to show me affection and kind of tried to have sex with me few times, but I wan't interested and kind of ignored her.

But few days ago, we kind of got drunk together and she official told me that she liked me, and we sort of kissed.

After that day, I think I've been infatuated. I can't really stop thinking about this, and I got to the point where I fell jealous whenever she is texting to talking to someone else. As I've said I'm 90% sure that this is not "love", I've been there before and I've always been too impatient with that sort of things, but I know they always pass eventually after some time.

I think its because I'm virgin and haven't had much experience with girls, I've been really vulnerable during that night.

I guess my question, is how to come out of this situation with a frame? I've been working out, reading, studying etc. but there is a time that I'm left alone with my thoughts and its absolutely killing me.

I know this will past, but just need some sort of guidance how to cope with that period. Also, she has shit tested me few times already.