So one of my plates was upset that I wasn't ok with her holding my hand. So she said until I was I "wasn't allowed access to her body">
Classic. I'm ok with it I have 2 other plates and we have plenty of fun. Haven't had contact with the aforementioned plate in about a week maybe? She sent me a song but I haven't said anything to that.

Normally I wouldn't give a shit about how to respond except she is connected to a new friend group. I started a group of people to get together and do shit with. That's where I met this plate (Obviously don't shit where you eat, but I am human). The men and I still get together, no one has said anything about her and I (it's been pretty under wraps, just between her and I, and yes I do know women can't keep their mouths shut). One of the men hit me up to meet up and get together with the group.

We all met up and she showed up. I smiled at her, but she was cold towards me and super friendly and approached everyone but me. I didn't change what I was doing or go out of my way to ignore her, but I didn't grovel at her either, enjoyed the company of the rest of the group.

We did our thing, I left early, said by to everyone. As I left she was trying to ignore saying bye to me, but gave me a look and "I'm mad bratty, give me what I want" goodbye as I left, I smiled and said "bye, good too see you all".

Get home and I have this message from her
"So when you have some free time that you can set aside for me I would like if we could talk. I did not like the way we interacted just now and think I'm feeling like I need to express some things...."

Haven't opened the message because we talk through telegram. So she was mad I didn't give her the commitment she wanted so she pulled away the sex. I called the bluff and continued to do my thing. Ran into her, was cordial and she had an attitude. Now that's my responsibility too.

My instincts are telling me to respond with:
"Well although talking with you sounds enticing, I have fun things to do..." which I know will set off a bomb but I don't really care, she's more work than worth it. BUT I do enjoy the friend group so I'm treading lightly.
Other option is ignore for a day then respond with something like "That's unfortunate you felt that way, I enjoyed seeing you. I'm pretty busy this week so whatever you have to say you can message me"

Any thoughts?