How would you reply to this?

Ubiquitous-Toss · 2018-09-21T16:13:41+00:00

Depends entirely on what situation you want to be in. Tagging along with a tinder slut and her friends to the bar sounds horrible. You'll see most recommendations here are to just throw out a time and a place and "meet me there" and see how she responds. If she just flakes without suggesting another time then it usually ain't happening.

vapel1fe42069 · 2018-09-21T21:37:22+00:00

what the fuck is this sub becoming. This isn't a place to come to for witty shit to say on tinder. This is a place to ask questions about red pill theory and becoming a better man.

Please don't shit up the sub with questions like this. And please more importantly don't answer them.

We_Are_Legion · 2018-09-21T16:36:21+00:00

OK, guys like this really shouldn't be trying to complicate things with lines or emulating someone else's game.

When in doubt, follow Inner Game. i.e. "if you subtract your fears, what would you say?"

Substract your fears of rejection, failure, social pecking order, sucess, etc... and follow your instincts. Display your intentions honestly.

Just keep it simple. Say the truth. "Hey, I'm confused. I like you and I'm looking for an excuse to hang out with you. Can I use that bar thing as an excuse to date you?"

Training yourself to say the response above will condition your mindset into one of congruence. Within days and weeks of practicing being yourself fearlessly, you'll be displaying interest in the most outrageous and attractive ways and it will work.

The need to be something awesome and impress her also comes from your fears. Let it go. Displaying your intentions honestly will benefit you more than a solid response from a chick.

[deleted] · 2018-09-21T16:41:52+00:00

assuming you guys r in the same city/area "sweet, i'm going out to Z bar tomorrow". Thats it. She understands the subtext that you'll also be out and you're willing to meet. If she's down, she'll either say that u guys should meet up or will message u later that evening. Don't assume she will though cause the ball's in her court now. Focus ur night on having fun with ur friends and flirting with other girls

johnpayne10 · 2018-09-21T17:08:45+00:00

Ask her 'Which bar?' Keeps the conversation flowing. It also provides you a control over the convo. When she replies 'XYZ bar', you can either go with 'Meh....that bar is shit. Have you ever been to this ABC bar? (the one closer to you)' Or you can go with 'What time?' And join her.

DadOnDabs · 2018-09-21T18:29:24+00:00

Go out with your friends and say, "I'll be at x bar at y time with my friends, bring your friends and join us"

As-You-Were · 2018-09-21T20:16:21+00:00

So intrude on her night, or ask her out with a hangover?

Leave her on read and message her tomorrow.

Peter_B_Long · 2018-09-21T23:19:38+00:00

I wouldn't reply.

I'd call her the next and set up a date through the phone.

Title	How would you reply to this?
Author	V0797
Upvotes	3
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Date	September 21, 2018 4:09 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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