Little backstory. I’m 21 yrs old and I’ve hooked up with chicks before trp. So I’m not that out of the game but I need some tips and what to better for next time.

Anyway yesterday I met up with this Asian chick. Of course the day we meet up it has to rain but I had flaked on her before so I wanted to meet up and just kinda see what was up.

She seemed interested in me. After I flaked the first time she reached out to me to set up another date. Anyway we went to a cafe sat down and talked. I didn’t really kino or escalate. Then we went to the park and did more talking. In my head I was like ehh this isn’t really going to well imo. Yeah we had a good convo but things weren’t where they usually are with other chicks. But I just wanted to try something.

So while we’re in the park I ask her you wanna make out in a really relaxed and she said no not right now. Then she went on to talk about tinder and why she was on it and then started talking about her school and how guys there don’t know how to handle women and they’re surprised to see them. I kinda felt like that was a shot at me for trying what I tried but I just ignored and played it off.

Maybe about 15 minutes later she’s like she has to go do this music production project and I walk with her as I have to go the same way to the train and when we part ways I say what no kiss and then she says fine and hugs me and also she gives me one of those peck kisses on the lips.

Then we part ways.

Honestly everything I’ve done here has worked before with other women even though I can never keep them. When I was direct like that it worked. But maybe I should have listened to my instincts when I said that I don’t think she was feeling me and just ended the date early maybe after the cafe. I don’t know all I know is that she was originally following me on ig and then she stopped following me and that tells me that she pretty much isn’t interested. I also don’t own my own place. I’m in college and I have one more year and I’m moving out once I get that full time job. So I think gaming would be easier because then I could just invite them back.

Most girls before invited me to their place.

Just want some tips on what I should do for next time. I definitely fucked this up but idk if it was because maybe our plans changed mid date because of the rain, she didn’t like my personality idk. Honestly I just think if I was really her top option then anything I would have done would have been fine and not weird because I’ve had girls have the opposite reaction.