"I find your intelligence EXTREMELY attractive"

hb8only · 2014-12-30T09:02:58+00:00

intelligence=money? :))) I know so many very very intelligent men, working for half of what I have. It is intelligence+boldness = money ;)

maybe she meant it like she said it = she find your intel very attractive (of course with 8.5 look) so have a fun with her. don't dwell on every sentence she ever said and "there is no woman which will be with you just like that".

wakethfkupneo · 2014-12-30T10:08:02+00:00

Intelligence is attractive. Not the most attractive trait, compared to confidence for example, but certainly helps. Bottom line: she likes you and it's giving you a compliment, expressing her feelings. There's nothing hidden behind it.

Addendum: In the future, I know I should work on avoiding mentioning my intellectual interests to plates

Why would you do that? Women actually find it really hot when man has personal interests and passion. Why would you restrict yourself to some boring everyday things that she can get from any other guy. Just don't come off as nerdy and you'll do great.

it's unproductive to the larger mission and makes them feel confused or stupid

And this is exactly what you want. Read the sidebar again and read more about hypergamy. No woman will get excited with on-or-bellow-her-level man. The more superior you look to her, the more she wants you.

MrEiffel · 2014-12-30T12:06:38+00:00

She means: I find your Moneymaking Capabilities EXTREMELY attractive

TheInkerman · 2014-12-30T12:30:10+00:00

When you express intelligent opinions or facts confidently, and you're not overbearing, it can be a form of frame setting. Your superior intelligence (again, when properly expressed) makes whatever opinions or beliefs you have that much stronger, and allows you to define her opinions and beliefs within your own much more effectively. This, however, assumes that the girl is into whatever your opinions and/or beliefs are.

tombreck2 · 2014-12-30T16:14:57+00:00

Opportunity for Aloofness: "99th percentile means I add 99 to the number right? My real IQ was 77."

[deleted] · 2014-12-31T03:53:26+00:00

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Title	"I find your intelligence EXTREMELY attractive"
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Date	December 30, 2014 8:58 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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