I know the rules about text but...

JerryMullin1978 · 2018-03-02T14:27:21+00:00

I’m not a therapist, but I bet you have a lot of beliefs which reinforce your need for attention.

Those beliefs are false but you believe them because they feel true. In addition, they seem more like facts than beliefs because you’ve been telling yourself and reinforcing them for a long time.

You know those beliefs are hurtful instead of helpful, which means you know they’re bs.

wasavi1 · 2018-03-02T14:30:20+00:00

If a girl is the problem I would say look for more girls to talk to, that way you have divide your urge to talk into more girls. This will also help with abundance mentality remember the next chick is just as cute as the first one.

refusewool · 2018-03-02T14:46:36+00:00

Meditate. Because I know you don’t already.

fnordsnord · 2018-03-02T14:42:19+00:00

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lovs2spuge · 2018-03-02T15:00:10+00:00

Had the same issue as you man. Slowly fixing it with abundance mentality and just doing my due diligence of TRP literature to reaffirm that I don't need outside validation.

My want to text females constantly has never gotten me anywhere. Ever. So I constantly remind myself of this so I don't keep doing it.

And of course, as other commenters here have mentioned, stay busy and do things that improve yourself.

Travis2310 · 2018-03-02T15:08:11+00:00

My addiction in life is the most beta thing. I need attention.

Fix this shit. QUICKLY.

This "addiction" will fuck you up sooner than you can imagine.

dokoya · 2018-03-02T14:45:22+00:00

Do you have a life? Things you do for fun that You like?

Two_kids_in_a_coat · 2018-03-02T16:52:44+00:00

Because you’re bored and boring and addicted to the phone. If you were busy you wouldn’t think like this. You’d be annoyed someone is interrupting you with a text. Get a hobby and leave your phone at home when you’re doing it. Focus on the moment.

Title	I know the rules about text but...
Author	DigitalDog0001
Upvotes	0
Comments	15
Date	March 2, 2018 2:18 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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