Looking for answers to the above question more than advice on my specific situation.

My buddy and I were overly ambitious people. We're trying to make music, he's spent like 300 bucks on equipment and we've both spent ungodly amounts of time on it. All my free time is eating lifting or working on music. Not even looking for plates because I can just jerk off when I'm horny. I get my emotional fulfillment from making music.

He's the polar opposite though. He's never had a gf, and now he does, and suddenly he's cancelling sessions on me. We have an album coming out, we're on the last two songs, and suddenly he's rain checking sessions we had planned out before he and this girl were a thing.

It's amazing, everybody's willing to throw away their goals for pussy smh.