Is it always a mistake to point out hypergamy?

como10 · 2020-05-27T18:18:26+00:00

Getting mad at her for shit testing you IS failing the shit test. You showed her that her words have an emotional effect on you which reveals you have a weak frame. Don't rationalize with women/point out their hypocrisies. This likely isn't salvageable. Move on. We all have fucked up before so don't be too hard on yourself. Learn from your mistakes and apply to the next one.

throwaway19991312 · 2020-05-27T18:13:44+00:00

fish dont like when you tap on the glass

Longgbottom · 2020-05-27T19:14:02+00:00

Pointing out her hypergamy = Calling her a HOE.

Sidebar, NOW!

FightForYourWay · 2020-05-27T18:17:23+00:00

a mistake? only if you’re a punk who thinks saying things that make women emotional is a mistake.

you didn’t fuck up unless you just cried and raged over text to the girl - if you didn’t... post a screenshot and we can find out in a few messages if this girl will fuck you or ignore you.

Natural_Singer · 2020-05-27T19:06:35+00:00

this isnt just with women. literally take any person and poke on the part of the ego they're trying to protect and most times they're gonna react erradically.

try explaining to a democrat that their media is just as susceptible to manipulation as the republicans'

try explaining to an american that they have 0 right to complain about other dictatorships while they casually overthrow governments for cheaper bananas and kill millions of muslims over the span of a decade

try telling a TRP'er that 99% of their issues would get solved if they just put themselves out there at the risk of embarrassment instead of trying to read 900 theories from books or that (gasp) clubbing can actually be a great place to get women if you learn to stop living inside your head and learn to loosen up

it's a human thing

2020-05-27T18:29:46+00:00

This post has made me laugh, thank you

2020-05-27T22:12:58+00:00

How has no one pointed out that it's a coworker? Do you want to lose your job?

Domebeers · 2020-05-27T22:56:06+00:00

learn what the hamster is, and then, because you have a brain, think about why they have a hamster.

TheGirlGetter9000 · 2020-05-28T03:03:58+00:00

Bruh, think about it. You're doing it wrong.

If you want to catch a fish, do you find a fish and tell it that you know how to catch it? No, it has no fucking clue what you're talking about. It's a goddamn fish. It just wants you to catch it and slaughter it. Spare the details.

Noodlesoupe2 · 2020-05-27T18:50:08+00:00

Whats wrong with hypergamy? Shouldn’t we all strive for the best?

ASTRA-LUX · 2020-05-27T18:18:25+00:00

Salvage the situation for what? So you get laid with her? Its like expecting chocolate to taste like vanilla when its actually chocolate. Move on and forget about it. Plenty of fish in the sea.

Japaliicious · 2020-05-27T19:07:35+00:00

> Got mad at a girl

here your answer

lolomotif12 · 2020-05-27T19:19:38+00:00

Why do you need to point out her hypergramy? This has no benefit to you in anyway, just know about it and keep it to yourself.

Barely-Moist · 2020-05-27T19:28:52+00:00

“Shit testing me”- the shit test clearly worked, she made you engage her, fight her, and now post on reddit about her, doubting yourself. You have brutally failed the shit test. And in the sense that shit tests are for weeding out poor romantic candidates, it was a wonderful success for her. You “got mad” and “pointed out her hypergamous nature???” It sounds to me like this girl wasn’t as interested as you would hope and she behaved accordingly. You know, like she doesn’t have to fuck you, and it’s your job to convince her. You do know that, don’t you!? You essentially got mad at a girl because she didn’t want to fuck you, and then called her a slut. That’s just classic incel behavior. It doesn’t matter if she’s a slut or not. How can you use “hypergamous” as an insult when getting pussy is clearly more important to you than maintaining any social grace? You’ve also risked your job. You can find a thousand screenshots of guys behaving just like that on niceguys. Read the comments on that sub. They laugh at guys like this. You haven’t “called this girl out,” or made her feel bad about herself and her slutty ways. And she definitely doesn’t want your dick now. What you’ve done is seal your prospects with an already disinterested or disrespectful girl. So no loss there except to your self respect. But you’ve also endangered your job and social situation by being a complete incel to a coworker. Advice: Abandon this particular ship. Find a new girl to hit on. Salvage your work situation if you at all can. If it really seems necessary, apologize even. You fucked up. When you find a new girl, realize that the goal of a shit test is to see if you can handle being teased. You clearly couldn’t. So don’t let it phase you. There’s never the need to insult a woman, or a man even, out of anger. If you want to playfully neg her then you do you. But don’t let her get to you. Women like men with a strong emotional frame. They’ll think you’re a boy if you have such a strong emotional reaction to their every challenge. And if the girl turns out to be a slut? If she has no respect for you? If she’s not attracted to you? If she has a cocaine addiction? Not your problem. Just get up and leave. If it’s so horrible that you feel the need to denounce a grown woman for her vile ways, just get up and leave. Find an 8 in a coffee shop or on the street or anywhere, and start again.

IXseed · 2020-05-27T19:47:01+00:00

Don't salvage and move on.

When you bring up hypergamy to her, you're blaming women for why you can't get pussy and bashing women for being sexual. Once she hears that she CANNOT have sex with you.

btrpb · 2020-05-27T20:30:00+00:00

This is a red pill noob error. You learned yourself a little bit of psychology and you think that this knowledge is going to help you win an argument if you just spell it out.

Yes. It is a mistake. You just learn to shut the fuck up and set your boundaries. Don't logic a woman. You will rarely win.

comcain · 2020-05-28T00:22:47+00:00

Don't shit where you eat.

Now you gotta deal with her as a co-worker.

Salvaging this mess: you may have to apologize to her to keep her from HR'ing you. Girls in general love drama and spats like this. Try to tone this down. Make yourself boring at work. Be professional but dull.

She'll probably poke you about this to stir up drama when she's having a boring day with nothing to do because no one with a brain trusts a girl like this with anything important. Don't react. Don't lecture her on TRP concepts. Delete the word "hypergamy" from your vocabulary. "There must have been a misunderstanding, I apologize" takes the wind out of her sails.

Note: in many corporations, you're required to report a relationship with a co-worker to HR. She may complain to HR and you didn't tell them about her. You're the guy, so the "sexual harassment" charge may land on you.

Good luck, brother. I have a bad feeling about your future at this corporation. Time to update your resume.

Cheers

Title	Is it always a mistake to point out hypergamy?
Author	ddkunami
Upvotes	2
Comments	33
Date	May 27, 2020 6:00 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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