Is it possible to make one sided open relationship?

Accomplished_Pin_121 · 2021-04-30T04:04:43+00:00

95% of women will be opposed to even a two-sided open relationship. So good luck convincing them into an unfair one sided open relationship.

If you crave more:

Break up with her and hook up with people.
Watch porn.

thiikn · 2021-04-30T04:44:38+00:00

are you just going to live your life holding back? fucking break up. and if you were wrong, fuck it. everything goes

ReconciledCapitalist · 2021-04-30T04:11:05+00:00

In my experience it’s WAY easier to set up the one-sided open relationship if you set that expectation before the relationship really begins. I do this by joking about starting a sex cult, or talk about how sister wives would be beneficial for everyone involved, etc. that way you can get them used to the idea before it even becomes an issue.

But with an established relationship, idk. I’d say slowly introduce the idea to her. At first through humor, then thorough “Funny how when you think about it...this might work really well”

michael1962-01 · 2021-04-30T04:35:15+00:00

Depending. In our culture - difficult.

Read "More than one" "The ethical slut" books

PimpinLikeIceberg · 2021-04-30T05:02:11+00:00

Doing it with my LTR at the moment but I had to tell her before even dating. Now it's been more than 2years and she does not ask questions when I'm out and shit...She knows whatssup. She just don't want to see anything...

Experience taught me that : if they truly want you (ie : alpha nigga) they will accept it. They just don't want to see shit..

In your case it's kinda tricky now...she gonna feel like she's not enough or tricked or some shit... But if you decide to just go like FuckIt and explain whatssup...She will probably accept and stay if you're not fully betaized in the relationship !

YesIveReadTheSideBar · 2021-04-30T05:16:59+00:00

My comment on a similar post is below. Just my 2 cents.

From my experience it’s easier to establish this from the beginning.

The only way I’ve found to make it work is to speak about me missing my single days in a nostalgic manner but not in a manner that makes her think I don’t want her. Last LTR told me she wouldn’t be happy if I slept around but she wanted to know after I did. She knew I never told her when I got some strange I just made sure to be safe and get tests if I thought I needed one.

The thing here though is that you don’t need your LTR to be on your side or be aware. Go have a ONS and see if that scratches your itch. For me a ONS every few months was enough for me. I didn’t need to spin plates during the LTR I referenced. Just needed an itch scratched where I could run some game and take a girl home to smash. See where your frequency of ONS’s are and go from there.

Her jealousy might make this difficult for you but if you counter that with some solid leadership I think it’ll be okay. Start by making comments about how the waitress looks good and escalate the comments to feel her out. That’s the only way I’ve countered jealousy. Making her realize I see a hot waitress but still smash my LTR that night.

Edit- Im Too lazy to retype/tailor it to your specific question. Take what you want from it. Second time I’ve seen it asked today.

btt069 · 2021-04-30T07:05:03+00:00

Uncle V has a post about OLTR's, read it.

Alittihad01 · 2021-04-30T07:38:39+00:00

If you can make her obsessed , of course!
but without mentioning it , just cheat and let her find out and act like nothing happened.

tell her i was just training , and you can't complain.

Title	Is it possible to make one sided open relationship?
Author	SlimFilter12
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Date	April 30, 2021 4:02 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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