Is it possible to transcend to redpill while in LTR?

abcd_z · 2014-02-12T09:18:01+00:00

without her feeling rejected to the point of leaving the LTR?

You're asking the wrong question here. In order to fix a relationship you must be willing to end it.

This is not the same as "you must end it". I'm merely saying that if you go into a relationship afraid to lose it, you won't have the strength to do what needs to be done to re-attract her.

You acted red pill, she liked that, you stopped acting red pill and she lost interest.

So... just start acting like you used to. Keep doing whatever attracted her to you in the first place.

How does one both redpill AND not remind her of the jerks she used to date and thus dropping out of the LTR?

You're missing the point. She dated them, and they were the ones to end the relationship. That means that if she had her way, she would have stayed with these so-called jerks.

Don't be afraid of reminding her of them. After all, they must have done something right to have her attracted to them.

nerdyfitnessguy · 2014-02-13T11:35:08+00:00

Go back to treating her like the dirty whore she is. Being serious. Stop buying her shit, start fucking her like you hate her.

BooksofMagic · 2014-02-12T04:48:53+00:00

It's possible. Get yourself read up on Married Man Sex Life Primer. It's cheap and Amazon will deliver it to your door.

Johnny10toes · 2014-02-12T14:31:15+00:00

In marriedmansexlife.com it says to be alpha and beta. Exciting and comforting. Yin and yang. Do beta things in an alpha way. One example the book gives is cooking. Alphas here praise cooking. Cooking is beta though. Taking charge of the meal is alpha. Cooking raises your SMV. Her girlfriends say "I wished my boyfriend could cook." or "I love a man who can cook." which is girl code for "I want to fuck your husband." Do it together and you are even more alpha. Gives you a chance to tell her what to do. "Grab two eggs and sperate them."

attaxx · 2014-02-13T00:59:52+00:00

Yes it is, it'll put a lot of stress to your relationship though. Might lead to break up but it's worthy.

aaron_the_just · 2014-02-14T21:09:46+00:00

If you aren't married (i.e. she has no leverage), yeah, being RP whilst in an LTR is easy.

You must be willing to leave the relationship if she steps out of line. If you live together, find a way to make her leave, or move out of her house.

You must be willing to spin multiple plates. Before you balk at this, think about how many girls you've known who tolerate a boyfriend who cheats all the time.

Evidence? Well, I'm sitting at my ex-gf's house right now, and will bang her when she gets home. Then I'm going to my ex-wife's house and will bang her too. Then I have something planned with a new girl after that.

j_arbuckle2012 · 2014-02-12T03:39:39+00:00

Read: heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/06/07/relationship-game-the-day-to-day-alpha/

TRP is a set of observations about reality as it stands. TRP philosophy is a mindset that helps men utilize this reality to get sex. LTR game is TRP philosophy on hard-mode. You don't have to save this relationship. There are others, go get them and leave her in the dust.

EDIT: Link.

RPanarchist · 2014-02-13T21:02:30+00:00

I'm not sure how a "couple of months" = a LTR, but whatever.

Stay with RP if you want continue this relationship, as you can clearly pick up she resents BP behavior.

You should never stop being RP, letting a woman "control" the relationship is a recipe for doom.

Title	Is it possible to transcend to redpill while in LTR?
Author	bronomore
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	February 12, 2014 3:31 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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