Bear with me. Being a manlet at 5'9", I've hit the holy grail of having a tall volleyball chick around at 5'11". I carry myself like royalty, have a great posture, and long legs so it balances out well. (Lifting solves everything)

My question is whether you guys like being the little spoon sometimes, all the time, or never. Of course having your dick in her ass, hands on her boobs, and making her feel secure with your strong arms is important. But I get the notion that being the little spoon is submissive. Optimistically, boobs pressing on your back or lay on is pleasant when watching TV or sleeping after sex. She can also play with my dick comfortably while keeping me warm.

Thoughts? It seems trivial but I'm just wondering if it'll make me seem less masculine for giving into her wishes of being the big spoon.