Hello guys! First of all thank you for being here and helping with all awasome stuff! I fell that I finally understand "sharing is caring" meaning. I have quick question. So basicaly I have BP hystory with girl we have same social circle, we were couple, then she friendzoned me, and I left. We repeated this cicle for couple of times without getting as couple (I know guys, this is fucked up). That was like we get together as friends for few weeks, I take her somewere, we have adventures, deep talking and shit, spontaneous things and so on, then I end it up when she reject me as more than friends, and same for few times. Now we had it again but after two days, yeasterday I asked her what is she expecting from me. She said that is hurted so much when I lefted her all the time after she refused me more than just a friend and she always expected to have me as a friend since that friendship is transforming her as some shit and she want to have friendship with or without deep talks and stuff but just to have me somehow as a friend, hamster hamster plus she said that its fair since she did not rejected me as a friend, newer. Clasic LJBF by Rollo. So basicaly I did experiment and asked question what is realationship from my side which is meaningfull and transforming for her:

A) To be just familiar with each other, casual hi how are you, bye and small talk stuff without any emocional investment

b) To be the guy who takes her out to adventure, all that deep talk shit about quabalah, meditations, life, going for walks, mountains and those things I did for her being in love. I do it everytime we get together because I have oneitis for her and she never had any beeter friendship for two years so she keep comming for more of my investment and comitment once in two months

c) This is what I want, all that things which is in - b) plus we as a couple.

She chosed - B in other words LJBF. So first thing what comes in my mind, ignore her again, ghost and keep fucking my plate, and she will come after two months or not.

But now I have question which intrigues me. If LJBF acording to Rollo is rejection which goes on my shoulders and it feels guilty-free for her since she is not refusing me, she offering bit less (her meaningfull friendship) what would woman feel if i would offer her to be - A) being familiar without emotional investment, since Im not refusing her just offering bit less and it shouldnt hurt? What do you think guys? your comments would be very helpfull to understand woman nature. Thank you!

P.S. Sorry guys for my english since its not native..

EDIT: Wow guys thank you! You made good points for me to clear things out! Plus i cant hide that I felt support and it made my guts shake. Nexted her ass, wrote what I want she said ok, and thats it. There was a good point on trying to propper game her, maby pook, models and dread could help but decided not to do it and concentrate on my value since dont want to simulate reality and try to bend it somehow too much trouble, also I like it when Im liked its much more fun. Thank you guys!