Hey guys,

Lately, when it comes to sex, my GF has been putting up a little more resistance. For instance, the other night, she initiated the kissing and pulled me on top of her into bed. But when I started escalating, she pushed me away. So I simply stopped, got out of bed, pet my dog, and then got into the shower.

This morning, once more she pulled me on top of her so I started fingering her. She complained that her pussy hurt (fucked her last night too so maybe that’s why). But it seemed like a lie rather than genuine pain. I went down on her for a minute or two and had no issue fucking her after that.

This has been happening more frequently the last couple weeks of our relationship. We’ve been together four months.

She has pretty much stopped verbally shit testing me since I’ve gotten really good at passing those tests.

When she puts up LMR, I am not butt hurt. I do not communicate with her about it, I do not sulk about it. I usually instead just start to do something else like read a book, go make food, hang with my dog etc.

Her LMR feels like a bit of a shit test, see how I will react when the pussy gets taken away. But I can’t tell if she genuinely just has less sexual passion for me lately or if this is just a shit test...

If it is a shit test, what’s the best way to pass and prevent from happening in future?