Lost erection during sex

vandaalen · 2015-02-24T13:18:33+00:00

Happened to the best before. In particular: me. I am no friend with condoms and I am easily distracted and therefor somtimes loose focus, so it'll happen from time to time. No big deal. Actually the girls are quite happy if they see my fully erect dick the next time and they'll put in more passion.

Pretend it never happened, don't show that you are insecure about it and proceed as you would with every other girl.

pewpewing · 2015-02-24T15:44:28+00:00

Booze will do that easily. Don't beat yourself up over it, it's just pussy.

falafin · 2015-02-24T13:43:38+00:00

shit happens

secret_barber · 2015-02-24T15:42:31+00:00

Don't drink so much. Don't masturbate on any day you might be getting laid. Keep a cockring nearby, in case of emergency.

Axotl · 2015-02-24T15:56:12+00:00

It's vicious.

It can be anything from performance anxiety to erectile dysfunction from short term (alcohol, excess porn & masturbation) and/or long term (stress, physiological) effects.

I'm more than willing to bet you just had an unlucky night with one too many drinks. If it becomes a pattern, look into reducing stress, fixing your diet (including drinking less than usual), maintaining a healthy lifestyle and abstaining from masturbation and porn which combine to have a physical & mental desensitizing effect.

For now, I wouldn't worry too much about it. It happens to the best of us at times and isolated cases are normal.

SpinPlates · 2015-02-24T18:06:32+00:00

Shouldn't have even made a post about it until you try having sex with her off booze and drugs.

This would be like going on a mechanics forum and asking about your car over heating...and finishing off with "but I assume it's from putting motor oil into my coolant resivour"

Any tips?

favours_of_the_moon · 2015-02-24T22:32:13+00:00

Maybe you just weren't that into it. Make a bitch work a little harder.

Danedina · 2015-02-24T15:18:01+00:00

Don't be surprised if this woman stops answering your calls, but you can try again with her. With luck she'll believe that the next time will be better, but don't get your hopes up. Women hate guys who can't come through once they've agreed.

Try not to beat yourself up. The cliche is true: it happens to almost every guy. Lay off the porn and get back on that horse. The next time will be better.

Red-Zen · 2015-02-24T18:48:51+00:00

Booze and drugs will do that.

Problem is, now that it's happened, you're gonna be stressed about it and that's going to make it worse.

Shit happens.

I was fucking some 18 yo when I was 30. (And various other women in their early 20s when I was in my early 30s). There was no way that I could keep it up enough to keep up with them. 3 loads, and I'm done. It doesnt matter how hot she (and her friend) is.

"Looks like he's drunk and passed out. Maybe you'll get to know him better later. Lucky for you I'm really good with my hands."

Amused mastery.
Maintain frame.

[deleted] · 2015-02-24T15:30:26+00:00

It happens bro. Don't worry and keep spinning.

RPthrowaway123 · 2015-02-24T16:30:20+00:00

Shit happens man. The harder you think about it the softer you'll be. Just laugh it off and finger or eat her out until it comes back.

campechampz · 2015-02-25T01:49:08+00:00

If you are addicted or watch porn regularly, I guarantee that it is the cause for your ED.

oldredder · 2015-02-25T06:26:17+00:00

could be the meds + booze - often you shouldn't mix the two - could be she's a new girl and no matter how hot sometimes this happens 1st time with a new girl.

sensitiveduck · 2015-02-25T06:27:40+00:00

Thanks for the answers. I was kinda surprised it happened because I'm on my 10th day of nofap and no porn. I had 1 gram of phenibut and probably too many beers. I sent her a normal text trying to set a date for tonight but she texted back saying she has to go to the gym and then see some friends. I think I should call her and if she doesn't agree with my plans again. NEXT

Title	Lost erection during sex
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Date	February 24, 2015 1:03 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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