LTR and I have sex 7-10x per week. I’d say 50% of the time she’ll finish me off with her mouth and swallow, but she never initiates it. It’s always me telling her to get down there. I can’t even remember the last time she gave me a blowjob during foreplay.

She also never just gives me a blowjob unless I tell her to.

Am I reading too much into this and just have to keep telling her what to do? Or could attraction be fading?