1.5 years, loved each other but couldn't communicate. She blamed it on her upbringing. In any case, nothing ever got resolved because she would "shut down" instead of talking through solutions with me. 2 weeks before she moved out she mentioned she should move out so we could start over and date again because we got off on the wrong foot. I knew not to be beta and plead so I said fine. She didn't do so until 2 weeks later and that's when she said she's "not happy" and that we don't understand how each other thinks. I said ok bye. What was interesting is she left behind so much stuff it filled up a huge box I stuck in my closet, a fancy wok pan she was very possessive over, clothes, stuffed animal from childhood.

I've done zero reaching out. Banged 3 plates so far. Been 2 months now. She's emailed me about logistics like internet bill. I replied with a short non-emotional answer. Got a few calls from blocked numbers but never answered.

The kicker was 2 weeks ago. I switched the internet into my name and the next day she sent me a long text about being in my part of town the next day and can I put her mail out for her. I said "k" then the next night got another missed call from a blocked number at 11 pm.

She hasn't changed her address after 2 months. Weird. But today I'm mailing that box of her stuff to her job.

Thoughts? I'd like to work things out but I know better than to say that.