LTR consistently texts another guy?

pyth0ns · 2021-02-17T12:21:20+00:00

This ones a ‘difficult’ one as it goes against the regular narrative.

She is learning a new language (bettering herself, which is a fuck tonne of a + in comparison to today’s average woman) - with that app, you take who you can get. From what you’ve written, it actually seems that she is indeed learning the language.

She also told him about you and it hasn’t been kept a secret from you.

If I were you, I wouldn’t even be giving this any time of day. (You’ve vetted her and know what she’s all about, right?)

Now. When you need to become ‘concerned’ and drop her to plate is if she starts making mention that she will be going to Columbia (without you) to meet up with this new friend. Or if friend comes here and she hides it from you.

Don_Draper27 · 2021-02-17T12:54:43+00:00

Trust but verify. You went through her phone and got your verification. At this point you're just manifesting insecurity issues.

rmcassio · 2021-02-17T12:23:08+00:00

Set your own boundaries. If it's ok for you, then keep going. Nothing will stop her from fuck any other guy if she wants to.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2021-02-17T15:48:21+00:00

She's being completely transparent about this. Pen pal in another country she practices Espanol with.

I see no reason to give a shit. In fact seems like she has a healthy sense of boundaries which is high value behavior.

Gtrplyr3838 · 2021-02-17T12:29:03+00:00

Duolingo is a thing. Perhaps she should have downloaded it if she wanted to learn Spanish.

Anarchistguy_2 · 2021-02-17T12:46:34+00:00

Listen to your gut. It never lies.

What does your gut tell you about this situation?

FirstName_LastName4 · 2021-02-17T14:34:21+00:00

I speak a bit of spanish, I can be your girlfriends new pen pal bro ;)

Jokes aside, he is in another country bro, i would say its nothing to worry about, but always trust your gut

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2021-02-17T12:00:28+00:00

Yes and yes.

Not even going to elaborate on the stupidity of this.

Jacked5parrow · 2021-02-17T14:01:53+00:00

Trust your girl but always confirmed. You confirmed, now stop your hamster wheel because it’s going to push her away. You should be focused on yourself and elevating you to be leagues past this dude.

bottomLobster · 2021-02-17T14:38:59+00:00

You said it yourself - it's plutonic.

ImprovingTalent · 2021-02-17T17:29:15+00:00

How I’d go about this thing: realize I don’t need her. If she is cheating she is cheating, her loss like who cares. I wouldn’t pay attention to it. Don’t be insecure about it and don’t talk to her too much about it.

Keep giving her good sex and a strong shoulder. Ltr is rp on giga galactic hard mode, never be weak.

Title	LTR consistently texts another guy?
Author	JaxxStar77
Upvotes	1
Comments	25
Date	February 17, 2021 11:46 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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