LTR constantly talking about guy at work

TheRealEyesWideOpen · 2019-07-25T16:36:28+00:00

Ex wife did this as well. Talking about some dude at work out of context and unsolicited. Classic shit test to rattle your frame.

I’m old school. If a chick is finding out of the blue reasons to talk about another guy she’s either banging him or considering it.

Unfortunately you have a kid in common. Second that happens in any of my relationships, having learned the hard way in my past, it’s an immediate soft to hard next. I just won’t put up with it.

I must be the centre of attention for her or she’s gone. Zero tolerance. I’m the prize and they are a depreciating asset.

TopTRP · 2019-07-25T18:59:17+00:00

Doesn't seem like a shit test to me like everyone is saying.

More like she has a crush on the guy and has no one else to talk to about it except you.

she almost exclusively talks about this guy that works there

Ok, so he's on her mind constantly.

While they're apart, she's reliving their flirty interactions by telling you the stories. The 'you' in this part isn't important, it can be anyone. Her mom, a friend, whoever, as long as she gets to talk about her crush to somebody.

how good he is with customers how he’s gonna rise in the ranks there etc

Hypergamy kicking in. She see's him as better than her due to his ability to perform the same job better than she can.

You see this kind of thing in every avenue in life.

If a girl is a soccer player, who does she have a crush on? Ronaldo.

Who does Kevin Spacey's realtor wife cheat on him with in American Beauty? The big shot realtor in their city.

etc.

a joke he made "something something morning wood"

So their conversation has turned sexual. He's talking about cocks to her.

Ya...nice "shit test" she's giving you.

The only test going on here is how long it's going to take for her to find herself alone after work with this guy she's crushing on.

boy_named_su · 2019-07-25T16:11:16+00:00

that's bad news

you should get a test to see if you're the real father. don't tell her unless you get a bad result

start talking about the hot chick at your work

if she hangs out with him one-on-one, it's over

Stuckinthesandbox · 2019-07-25T16:21:21+00:00

She's 22. In today's world a 22 is still in the candy store wanting to try everything.

Like others said, it's a shit test. She wants to see how you react to her giving attention, talking about another man. From your core you should treat this other man like a 12 year old that's hitting on your gf as she's working at the coffee shop. If she has a promiscuous past, she's likely wanting to or has hooked up with him.

IOwnMyShit · 2019-07-25T16:00:23+00:00

she already got to you as your making this post

this is a classic test. to see if your a strong confident man... just laugh and move on to the next subject, or say shit like "we should invite him over for dinner" of course that's never gonna happen. But it shows that you're confident enough to know your worth and that your not worried about losing her because you have value. And no other man can match your value. So it's her loss. Don't let shit tests like these affect you, brush em off and do as I say because she will stop bringing him up pretty quickly. this shit is usually the first stage of things starting to go south, so make sure you execute and maintain high value.

SeasonedRP · 2019-07-25T18:11:16+00:00

Talking about the same guy constantly is a sign she's considering branch swinging. Odd timing since she just had a kid but you never know. I wouldn't react to her comments but would start talking to those cute girls you are getting looks from.

ThrowawayYAYAY2002 · 2019-07-25T18:12:33+00:00

This will not end well.

longjeep2005 · 2019-07-26T00:58:24+00:00

This happened to me with an ex. She mentioned this “pervy” gym bro who worked the desk at her apartment was hitting on her. At the time I figured it was just a shit test and totally ignored it. Anyway, a couple weeks later she freaked out because I’d been ignoring her after bad behavior on her part, and she sent a breakup text.

A week later and heard from my mutual friend that she’d posted with Mr. Creepy GymBro by the pool on her instagram. Friend confirmed that they’d been likely been banging based on other accounts.

So any time a girl mentions another guy coming on to her, and she does it without disgust or disdain for the guy, she is absolutely fucking or thinking about fucking him. She’s doesn’t even realize it herself, but she has a firm grasp on that next branch and she’s about to swing

jonald_fyookbaIl · 2019-07-25T23:21:16+00:00

"He sounds pretty cool. You should bring him in so we can have a threesome"

redpilllogin · 2019-07-25T20:40:48+00:00

Tell her to invite the guy over for drinks one night because you want to meet her friends. See how she reacts, and if it happens watch how they behave around each other while keeping a nonchalant attitude. This can also be a good chance to out-alpha the guy and show both of them you are better.

mabden · 2019-07-26T02:14:06+00:00

This guy is giving your girl the tingles. She may be all over your cock, but wouldn't doubt it 's because she's revved up by work dude.

adrich86 · 2019-07-25T15:59:30+00:00

She’s definitely choking on his dick on their break. Kid probably isn’t even yours.

Whitefarmer · 2019-07-25T20:25:09+00:00

Ask if he’s tried to fuck her yet. Of course she’ll say no then laugh and say what a fag! Make sure you say it with 100% confidents because if you’re voice stutters then your the fag

Marti_Shanon · 2019-07-25T22:05:04+00:00

If she just went back to work after maternity leave, he may be one of the only people she talks to that isn’t you or your kid, therefore he’s in a lot of stories.

Ask her what’s up.

[deleted] · 2019-07-25T15:59:26+00:00

She’s definitely choking on his dick on their break. Kid probably isn’t even yours.

Ryabemo · 2019-07-25T21:36:46+00:00

This doesn’t sound too good... try to keep your kid at least...

Title	LTR constantly talking about guy at work
Author	IOwnMyShit
Upvotes	19
Comments	49
Date	July 25, 2019 3:47 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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