Had a girl I was in an LTR for about a year after plating and vetting. Whenever I feel she does something I don't like, I tend to withdraw which usually fixes the problem.

Took her on a trip with me and another friend. She wasn't affectionate and just super focused on getting her IG pics so I withdrew, didn't give her attention or affection etc.

After the trip she's super lovey dovey, buys me gifts, writes me letters, cooks me dinner multiple times etc. Two weeks after the trip out of nowhere she calls me while hysterical, telling me she felt so bad the entire trip because I treated her like shit, and that I was somehow scheming against her with my friend to make her feel bad, etc. All not true, I simply talked to her less and gave her less attention because I didn't feel good about the way she was treating me, and I was honest and told her as much.

I didn't want to tolerate all this verbal abuse so I blew up and said if she's so convinced I was scheming against her, I'll make the decision for her and end the relationship. Hung up and blocked her off everything out of impulse.

A week has passed. She hasn't reached out. I don't really want a relationship anymore since she's killed my attraction, but I am also super confused and a little upset why she so lovey-dovey and then suddenly so angry at me. Am on tinder looking for hookups. The sex was good, so I'm contemplating hitting her up to 'talk'.

What should I be doing here?