Hey y’all. 30 yr old here in LTR 2 + Years with 26 year old. My GF lately has been nitpicking me on things such as putting things back in right spot, hanging towel up, putting forks away in right direction, leaving food in her car from restaurant (her meal but I put in trunk for her) .etc when I’m at her place. Some of it is legtimate and I’m glad she makes note of it. But yesterday she said, “I’ve been messing up on things lately and she’s frustrated”, when I’ve honestly felt like I’ve been extra aware of washing my dishes, putting things back, etc. she stated that if she was grumpy towards me later in the day then that is the reason why. I was a bit annoyed but went about things as usual but then we started driving and had a small incident. I was driving her car (usually do) and was slowly moving towards the cross walk as people were crossing. She claimed I got too close to the people..and then barked “Let me drive on the way home”, then demanded the keys after we parked. Now I was fairly annoyed as I felt like she was extra nit picky that day. I decided to just swallow and let her drive. Everything was fine after but I was still a little annoyed. She did make me dinner and served me wine before some hot sex so things were fine after l...but Did I respond in the right way? Is this AWALT? Or does my girl seem a little much? Like I said I understand I can be more aware in certain situations but I hate being watched and corrected in such small things all the time: