I, M29 have been in a LTR with F28 for over a year now but just recently movedin together.

She has gotten lazier lately, doesn't care if she eats snacks, complains she looks fat (how to handle this one when she's not close to being fat, but I can tell she's not as fit as of late? She has gotten more insecure about herself, too).

She spends most of her time on the couch on social media, mostly TikTok (always has been tho).

I have plenty of stuff going for me, I can occupy myself or weeks alone, easily. But she always complains that "we never do stuff together".

It's true, we don't do a whole lot as of late during Corona times.

But yesterday, out of the blue, she spat out that "I never get any me-time,. I'm never alone, you are always here. I just wanna go to my cousin (Male, 25, her best friend), drink beer and sleep around.

Here I go like "Umm, OK? Then do that if that's what you want". She turns red and shouts "WHY DON'T YOU EVER GET ANGRY AT ME!!"

I don't care if it's true or not, what she meant.

I don't get angry, ever. I just shrug it off.

I tell her that it's OK if she wants to do whatever, whenever. I have shit going on so I'm good. Then she goes like "Naa. But we never do anything together!" She gets annoyed very easily, mostly on me lol.

Anyway, I want to spend more time on me and my stuff than her. I'm egoistic like that. It has always been like that, perhaps it's getting too transparent.

I just don't know how to react when she acts up and starts bitching about everything.