LTR to Open LTR?

quicklogaccount · 2017-06-26T01:04:10+00:00

She begged me to consider dating her despite how she acted the past 5 weeks

You are shit to each other. Once you broke up she sought a way to empower herself and take the lead of her life, in five weeks she went from incapable to act against her depression to CC riding and off anti depressants.
Let her be. Follow her example, get your shit together and ho enjoy life.

I prefer a more purple-pill mentality of using Redpill ideologies to make a long term work.

That's because you're still thinking LTRs are "better". The only "better" thing they could be is working well if you go blue pill about it, and unfortunately they don't. "Purple" is horse shit. You can prefer LTRs but to make them good for you (both) you have to be full red, out of the anger stage, and intelligent.
This is probably the reason she was depressed with you. She is an hypergamous woman with absent abundance mentality, so she feared dearly losing her stability if you left. She doesn't understand it but this changed now.
You can totally want LTRs man but "purple" is horse shit. You'll have to be red pill about it. But before thinking of LTRs again I guess you should work deeper on the sidebar and on understanding how shit works, spin some chicks in between, and let your ex take care of her life, she'll probably do good.

failingtheturingtest · 2017-06-26T02:11:31+00:00

She isn't a different person. You aren't a different person. You didn't work. This is NOT going to work long term, because you've both just been given evidence that you can manipulate each other in a matter of weeks.

If you had a room of 100 beautiful women who want to sleep with you, why would you pick the one that you know had 4 cocks in her this month, and has already fucked you around? You wouldn't. Your problem is you don't have many choices so are going for the easy option.

Get out there and get some abundance!

Ramesses_ · 2017-06-26T00:44:51+00:00

Dude, I say do it! These guys here worry way too much about protecting themselves from negative consequences. Sure the chances of negative consequences are high - so fucking what! Embrace the good, embrace the bad. As long as you go in with eyes wide open who cares?

I can almost guarantee you're going to have a good time. Fucking your oneitis when you feel like it, telling her to fuck off when you don't, openly gaming and pulling other women. And in the meantime your girl is going to be treating you like a GOD because her dread levels will be 99.

However be aware that no matter what she says she will almost certainly not be 100% loyal to you. She's just telling you what you want to hear to get what she wants. Women are masters at manipulating. She knows what she wants (your commitment, her freedom) and she's going to use her knowledge of what YOU want to get what she wants for herself.

I want you to understand too what the cock carousel is all about. Women CRAVE attention and validation. It's a deep seated need akin to your own male sex drive. Sex and needing it is a part of us, it dominates us. When a man's getting sex it adds virtually nothing to his happiness - when he's not getting it it makes up virtually all of his unhappiness. Thus it is with women and validation. There is nothing more validating for a woman than getting dicked by an alpha male. It's the ultimate, definitive proof of their worthiness. Likewise, we aren't on a sub about finding the perfect fleshlight to masturbate with, sex for us is also about the worthiness that comes with a woman submitting herself to us and allowing herself to be fucked by you.

So you can't escape that your girl is going to want to be dicked by alpha males - and more than just one. That is an inevitability and the essence of AWALT. It's not necessarily a bad thing. I mean it sucks, but it doesn't suck any more than the fact that no man can be truly sexually satisfied with just one pussy. It's just the way life is.

Great relationships are built on understanding. If you want your girl to deny her nature for your sake... well good luck. Prepare for heartbreak.

So in summary, for sure go do this but just be aware. She's going to get fucked by other guys and if she's not she is absolutely going to WANT to and be surrounded by opportunities for it to happen. So understand and know that.

Kennen1Trick · 2017-06-25T23:19:43+00:00

As long as you're okay with her telling you one thing and doing the total opposite the first chance she has the opportunity, you're good.

dontbedenied · 2017-06-26T00:22:01+00:00

I think you're leaving yourself open to some crazy shit. She's obviously not all together mentally and you're not certain about your feelings for her, so this could get messy. Is the sex really worth the drama? I know I wouldn't go back to that.

Pro_Like_Me · 2017-06-26T20:23:02+00:00

plate, nothing more

No_senses · 2017-06-26T02:28:22+00:00

Sounds like you want a TRP member to sign off on your extremely beta behavior so you can pretend that you're doing the right thing. Good luck with your cuckold lifestyle.

[deleted] · 2017-06-26T02:46:51+00:00

If you don't mind sucking another man's cum outta of your girl's pussy, than go ahead, man.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-06-26T09:22:50+00:00

"To those who say no based on the fact it's a LTR: The Pill is my toolbox to do with what I like. I prefer a more purple-pill mentality of using Redpill ideologies to make a long term work."

So basically you don't want RP advice, you want people to confirm and approve whatever beta cuck intentions you had? Sure bud, do it. A ring on her finger would make her more comfortable, I'm just saying.

Title	LTR to Open LTR?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	5
Comments	11
Date	June 25, 2017 11:02 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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