LTRs and Red Pill?

RPU_mike · 2020-12-21T02:12:23+00:00

The common wisdom is “don’t get married” because the institution of marriage is a shitty deal for men nowadays, for several reasons. The only real reason for a modern guy to get married is to raise kids, in my opinion, but plenty of guys raise kids without getting married.

I’m married. It’s definitely possible to have a successful marriage as a red pilled guy.

KingCaptain744 · 2020-12-21T02:23:38+00:00

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Noodlesoupe2 · 2020-12-21T03:37:18+00:00

I personally think marriage with an emotionally stable and empathetic girl is the only way to have children but if you aren’t planning on having kids anytime soon I wouldn’t marry. Ltrs are great if you can handle them tho

Musicgoon · 2020-12-21T02:15:52+00:00

No, there are red pill guys in LTR's. I have one. It took me 2 decades of bullshit to get to this point and a lot of failures.

We usually discourage beginners because they can't even get one girl let alone have healthy relationship. They will settle for the first woman they get. They usually get cheated on, taken advantage of, baby trapped and cucked.

Just out your own wellbeing and happiness first. Never stop improving and don't be afraid to walk away.

I would go to the married red pill sub. Those are guys with sustainable LTRs.

themostgianthorse · 2020-12-21T02:16:00+00:00

No. It’s possible. Mental point of origin my friend.

BlocknGhost · 2020-12-21T04:28:07+00:00

If you’re happy, having your needs met, and receiving mutual effort and respect, LTRs are usually more satisfying than casual imo. That being said, you have to be willing to walk and not get caught in the sunk cost fallacy if things take a turn for the worse, and you should never get complacent with your personal journey or dependent on the relationship for fulfillment.

testing8382737 · 2020-12-21T04:08:57+00:00

Its possible if she hasnt been infected with feminism and doesnt have lots of issues and doesnt shit test all the time. The girls that shit test all the time have lots of issues and should be avoided anyway. Also, make sure to get a prenup.

ClickKlakk · 2020-12-21T04:25:51+00:00

The point is having yourself in position to eject whenever you need to due to unacceptable behavior. Staying in that position usually helps control that behavior. Getting married does nothing but put you at a disadvantage

Title	LTRs and Red Pill?
Author	KingCaptain744
Upvotes	2
Comments	13
Date	December 21, 2020 1:58 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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