I'll try to keep this short and summarize with bullets

  • Renting out townhouse that my parents own (3 bed, 2.5 bath), needed help with rent/utilities so looked for a roommate to move in.

  • Find roommate, lets call her C (solid 7, great body). Went to neighboring high school, we know a small amount of the same people

  • Connection off the bat, easy to talk with one another, doesn't feel like a stranger. Few weeks after C movies in, she starts coming on strong.

  • I take the hints and make a move. Fool around for a two weeks before it escalates to sex since she doesn't want to move too fast. C states she wants it to be strictly physical and does not want to be exclusive. I have no problem with that as I have 2 plates on the side.

  • Fast forward to present (roughly 2.5 months from last bullet). Find out more about her. Great personality, independent, quirky, nice, great cook, exercises, is a great dancer, etc. A keeper in my book

  • Both of us like one another to some extent. We sleep together either in her bed or mine 4-5 nights of the week. Sex at least 3x a week if not more. Affectionate around the house to one another. I find myself surprised by how much I like her.

  • We have a talk last week about us, and hypothetically what being exclusive would mean. She's never been in a relationship before and has some preconceived notions on what it would mean. To her it would mean giving up freedom, not being able to talk to other people, etc. Sounds like she's imagining being with a insecure beta kind. Told her she can go out, have fun with her friends, dance, etc. the only thing that matters to me is no cheating. She also said "I don't think I'd marry you, so what's the point in being exclusive?". Told her she still doesn't know me that well and you can't always tell that off the bat. I ask her to name what she'd look for in a guy. The list she names includes all aspects of me and I point that out with a cocky smile.

  • She states after all this she still wants to see other people. Mind you in the 4 month span she's lived here she's not spoken of another guy, brought anyone home, gone on dates, you get the idea. She says if I were to bring a girl home she wouldn't like it out of the blue. She'd like me to talk to her about it first, then she'd be okay with it. Whatever that means.

  • I'm holding frame, playfully teasing her, taking her on dates without calling them that (I love it because she always pays for her half when we go out), actively stay busy, independent (she loves that I'm not needy or too talkative), always escalating with her, extremely sexual, do nice things occasionally but only if she does something to deserve it first.

  • Advice guys? I'm not sure how to handle the situation since it's unique. Part of me would like to be exclusive in the coming months with her. Part of me thinks I should wait til I don't live with her in case things go sour. But all in all, soon I'd see it being like a couple without the title.