So there’s this girl I’ve been fucking for a couple months. She says she doesn’t want anything serious, and I believe her. However sometimes her actions speak otherwise. She has done shit like accidentally blurt out the L word, always saying she misses me and being the first to initiate meet ups. She is sexually submissive and does anything I want. As a plate it’s been pretty good. However I feel like she has too many red flags to consider an LTR. She has an army of simps and orbiters and constantly posts attention seeking shit to social media/loves to do drugs and party. She’s 20, fairly standard stuff

My problem is that I fucked up turning it into a FWB dynamic, and that’s where things starting turning sour for me. I made the mistake of inviting her to a gathering with some people I know. While we were there I was spending some time interacting with people and not really mate guarding or anything like that, letting her wander around and do whatever. At a certain point she starts talking to a dude there a little too much for my liking. She ends up wandering off with him(her friend who I let her come along with was there too so i know nothing crazy happened.)

This annoys me, kind of disrespectful and the event is dying down so I text her that I’m leaving and if she wants to come with now is the time. She returns and acts like nothing is wrong. There was a good amount of alcohol involved FYI.

I keep my cool and drive her friend home, she’s telling me all about how much fun she had and how hot I am. We get back to my place and she initiates really hot sex. Next morning I act a bit cold and take her straight home. She could probably tell I was slightly annoyed, I just told her I was tired. She added the dude who is an acquaintance of mine and I noticed she liked a bunch of his pictures and even posted a photo he took of her and tagged him in it. This shit got me pissed and now I’m looking for advice for how best to deal with it.

The shitty part of this is despite my best efforts, she’s my only plate at the moment. I am actively gaming other girls, but unfortunately nothing has come to fruition as of yet. I had a nice roster of plates that has dwindled and thus she has become my main source of pussy unfortunately.

Talk some sense into me guys.