Ive been seeing this girl for a while now, met at a party in winter break, hooked up once, and i've been with her ever since. I had not planned on getting into an LTR this year, but just cuz of how cool she was to be around, i got bored of the plates i was spinning before so I ghosted the rest. Anyways, I would see her couple times a week, take her with me to parties, and even surprise her in the coffee shop she works at. Been very romantic with her but never show her too much of me, and she knows that. I was leading the seduction in this relationship and she was clearly taken by her heels by the way I treat her (as her friends tell me), and my interactions in social scenarios. However, I never let my emotions delve in attachment, which is why I - to a certain extent - understand female psychology and know when to pull back, ignore, not give too much attention (basically cat-string theory if any of you have read AoS or The Game).

Sometimes I ghost her and she knows that so she tries to ignore me, and it ends up being a waiting game so see who breaks frame until she can go back to fucking my brains out. We have had insane sex and I know she is waiting for me to ask her to be mine, but a week ago I had called her and she never replied. I followed it with a few texts and nothing rang a bell, so i waited, and thinking i was gonna call her the next day, its been almost a week since either of us broke frame and called one another. I don't usually ask for advice on insignificant shit like this (so, sorry if you read 2 mf paragraphs and got nothin out of it lmao) but just need advice from men who know have experience in breaking a girls frame without caving into their emotions and breaking first.

I can still wait and ignore, or another option is telling her I left town, to pull back a bit, make her worry she might be losing the one best thing that has happened to her this year (or so she tells me), and then create a resolution to highten and excite the emotions after a low.

Solid advice would be very appreciated,

Thanks boys.