I'm going to cut right to the chase. TRP saved me from suicide and I once again look for help.

My mother is at the point where my family and I are going to have to make some final decisions. It's not hopeless, but not hopeful either. This is the first time I've ever been in this situation with a loved one.

My concern is that my entire family is distant and very BP. This event has brought everyone together but I think this will be temporary. I'm trying to be weary of shit "help" or "advice."

I may look into counseling for grief, but again, we know that any type of emotional support is BP. I'm not looking for advice on holding frame for a paramour, but I need to be able to function as my own human being.

If anyone has experience with something like this, I'd very much appreciate some constructive guidance and direction. I'm basically alone in that while I'm surrounded by family, they aren't close. Speaking with my father is not an option as he's not much of a man and closer to a woman.