Only text for logistics... a bit too extreme?

ShotgunTRP · 2018-08-01T06:55:50+00:00

When scheduling “let’s get gelato, day x or y”

Give them a paradox of what day. Not “to do”or “not to do”

Don’t flirt too hard in text you’re meant to do that IRL

When the friend text what do you look like, then the follow up. ignore. That’s high school bullshit. don’t post that jungle book shit. It looks too desperate

If you’re sir chad slayathot captain of the football team you would ignore that petty high school shit. Make her sweat she’s lost your interest.

JonathanMekerset · 2018-08-01T06:55:50+00:00

Attraction is not built over text so you can only lose when texting.

Helpcalculus · 2018-08-01T07:56:27+00:00

I don't remember who said it but I'll rephrase it.

"Once you fully internalize the game, you can break every single rule."

alvaro10101 · 2018-08-01T08:14:26+00:00

If you want to become her text buddy she talks to about Chad; go ahead and chat!

Jsieijejeieokkd · 2018-08-01T09:13:43+00:00

“Machete don’t text”

wobbleelbbow · 2018-08-01T10:56:42+00:00

It's ok to text once in a while to maintain attraction, but couple times a day? That's being her emotional tampon and is a thing reserved to people in LTR.

Now you haven't fucked her even and you give her attention for free? Well, if your goal is to be better at text-game, that's fair enough, enjoy yourself.

If your goal however is to fuck her, you are just becoming one of her hundreds of orbiters. When a woman gives sex for free and doesn't get anything in return, she's a slut. When a man gives attention for free and doesn't get anything in return, he's an orbiter.

dream-hunter · 2018-08-01T12:29:11+00:00

Don't text only for logistics unless you're 9+, otherwise it will not work and you will look creepy. Be funny and cocky in the first texts that'll make her laugh, so she sees you're not some creep, then escalate to a date.

shitpommesfrites · 2018-08-01T07:00:23+00:00

Only texting for logistics are a bit extreme, but you should be texting for a reason, and not just texting for texting's sake.
The reason most people here are texting is to actually meet the girl. Keep your endgame in mind, work towards it.

mismm · 2018-08-01T10:58:56+00:00

Honestly her replies don't show a lot of interest. I'd say give it a few days of no contact and try again.

nicholson- · 2018-08-01T11:15:14+00:00

Going against the grain from this sub here but from what i have found and understand is that there are some girls who genuinely want to build some kind of rapport on text just so they know they aren't meeting up with a psychopath, especially in this day and age where technology is a huge part of everyday life, more so with younger girls who crave attention, older girls not so much. (via online dating apps or whatever) I used to even do this myself, i'd always background check on facebook, what kind of friends they have, family history - With these girls I like to engage in some form of chit chat but always round it back up to meeting up routinely so you aren't wasting your time orbiting them (bare in mind this would be ONCE a day or every other day just to keep some form of interest. And never text them more than once, I like to perhaps text them once then see if they reach out to me, if they don't I just bring up meeting and if they aren't interested I call it a day with them and move on to the next girl to save time. But you should be doing this with several girls at the same time obviously.

Also reading your chat, she is already giving me migraines with her hard to get bullshit. Actually infuriates me when women act like that and I give them zero attention. I would not of even bothered replying to "my friend sent that" comment. I would of just ignored it. When they start doing this, logistics ONLY is definitely 100% the way to go. Do not engage with her.

abudun79 · 2018-08-01T10:58:55+00:00

That advice is simple and cannot be misunderstood. That does not mean it is always the best anyone can do in any situation.

It is best taken literally by those people who are socially crippled enough to need help in most social interactions. There is a suprisingliy high number of people around here, who don't understand the most fundamental workings of social interaction at all. But to the mature users it is a reminder not to engange too much in any buffer-conversation, that has a high potential to reduce attraction, and will most likely not create the same arousal in the girl, that they feel themselves.

So: Stupid people avoid texting because they will fuck it up and normal people, who recover from their blue pill past, learn that texting doesn't work the way they thought.

FuckboyAWALT · 2018-08-01T08:56:31+00:00

Give her the chance to miss you. By texting you are available to her.

If she is attracted to you she won’t lose attraction if you don’t text but might lose it when you text.

ThickSoild2802485 · 2018-08-01T12:56:14+00:00

Text only for logistics. Once you've banged her texting can actually work in your favor. As long as you're keeping your texts short and sweet i don't see the problem.

Title	Only text for logistics... a bit too extreme?
Author	Kidcurry
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Date	August 1, 2018 6:33 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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