Been seeing a chick for the past month. All was going real well with her for the first couple dates. We had sex after the second date and she obsessively texted me afterwards.

She spent the night the other night. I got real bad whisky Dick so it was fairly lackluster and embarrassing at points since I went soft. Still had an orgasm though and played with her clit for a while afterwards.

As we lay there, with feel good chemicals pumping through my brain, we discussed a lot of things. Despite all TRP knowledge I have, it all went out that moment for some reason. I told her about family problems, told her about my n count, told her I had been practicing celibacy for the last couple years, theorized about souls and death.

We fell asleep. Woke up. Had much better sex. But it was short. Headed to breakfast together. She was touching me a lot. Pretty good vibes. I still however felt like a clown trying to get attention while we walked to breakfast. She was giving me a couple shit tests saying my humor was very dad like.

Let out a couple more secrets on accident, like telling her my brother was a drug addict. All she asked was what he did for work.

The final straw was sitting at breakfast - she wanted me to read something she wrote. I’m a big writer too so I shared something I had written recently for a writing class I’m taking. Regardless that it was fiction, it was the most beta shit you could have a girl read. She grinned and chuckled while reading it. Not sure if she was laughing at the content or at me.

Walked back to her place, still touching each other, being flirtatious. Kissed her a couple times and left.

Then everything sunk in all at once. I had awesome frame control prior to this meet up. And things were going very well for me. Felt pretty damn good since I haven’t had much success lately.

The rest of the day, I felt like such a bitch for yapping so much and showing her my writing. Subtly felt the frame shift from mine to hers. I don’t know if I fucked up so bad that she won’t want to see me again. I guess my questions are:

Will bad sex cause a girl to lose interest?

Have you ever destroyed yourself like I did with a chick and been able to salvage the frame / relationship?