So, I'd posted here a couple of weeks back about how I ghosted my Oneitis. I'll not be dishonest, I've been regularly checking her social media despite not talking to her, in a way still validating her. But it's reduced significantly​ over the last few days.

I've spent a lot of time thinking about how to change my life, I'm 28, bald, overweight, doing ok in my career. But I do have a couple good things going for me I have really good male friends and I'm an intelligent guy, this has been instrumental in me logically accepting TRP.

At the same time, emotionally it's been extremely hard for me to get my head around it, this will take a few more weeks I suppose.

In order to change and improve my life, I recognize there are a few things I have to do: 1. Get fit I've started running everyday and eating better, I've lost 10 pounds already, I'll be enrolling in a gym this week.

  1. Read, accept and internalize the side bar: This is proving to be extremely hard, I'm feeding my brain information that's contrary to everything I've thought my entire life. To repeat myself, it's extremely logical but hard to accept at an emotional level.

  2. Get a better job I compromised my career three years ago when I chose to be closer to my ailing father. He was my hero and role model. He was a proper red pill man, I see that now. I've not really gotten over his loss. He would be disappointed to see me this way.

I've worked on my résumé for the first time in 2 years and I've started applying for jobs that better suit my skill set, I'm fairly successful in my current job but behind where I'd like to be and it's not a role I really enjoy.

  1. Be better socially, I'm kinda introverted. Approach and talk: Again, this is extremely hard and I've made zero progress on this front, I'm currently feeding off the popularity of my friends to talk to new people.

Finally, at some level I do feel that I'm doing all this to get back at my Oneitis and not for myself. I'll keep you guys updated whenever possible. I have a long, long road ahead of me and it will be difficult. I won't be one of the overnight success stories you guys see here.

Thanks for all the support on my previous post, it helped.