So last night I went out with this girl I have been fucking. We were at the bar and some guy shows up she has known for a while. She immedietly gets all giddy and jumps on him straddling him and then goes through his pockets and gets a ciggarette. I was appauled. He left shortly after and I told her to finish her drink because I was taking her home. She didnt understand. I told her I did not like her behavior because I felt it was very disrespectful to me. She resisted for a bit but I help firm. I started thinking of child psychology (I have a degree in psych) and remembered concrete operations (it is because I said so) and the ABCs of behavior (anticedents, behavior, consequence). Ifyou are trying to get a child to understand why they did something wrong they need to tell you what they did so and realize it was negative. So: it was wrong because I felt disrespected, her behavior caused a negative response and the consequence was that the night was over. After a few minutes she agreed with me and seemed to take to heart what I was saying. I had all ready told her I was taking her back though so when she finished her drink we left. She told me when we got back she was going to blow me. Go me I thought. But when we got back she was emotional but kept it together rather well. Then proceeded to puke all over the place and fell asleep on my couch.

She lives with an x but has been coming over and fucking/blowing me regularily. From what I understand the other guy is abusive and wont leave. That is a story for another day though.

Anyway, I feel bad. I think I did a good job of handling her but maybe I pushed it to far.

Wast his red pill of me? Your thoughts