Question about Tinder

[deleted] · Wed Aug 13 14:11:43 2014 UTC

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etcomro · 2014-08-13T13:45:53+00:00

Disclaimer: I don't use Tinder.

You gotta remember, with anything like a dating website or anything like Tinder, those hotties get 10x more attention than they would irl because the betas think "Oh great this is my shot!" Even though those same guys aren't approaching them when they see them on the street.

That being said, I think there is a Tinder guide floating around r/seduction

willtopower2014 · 2014-08-13T16:24:32+00:00

I remember back in the day PoF being a gold mine. Then fat chicks found out they could get laid on there and ruined the whole website.

Is Tinder the new thing? I've been off the field for a few years.

mrfocus22 · 2014-08-13T16:33:51+00:00

I was discussing this a few of my guy friends the other day. It seems that Tinder is a really easy way for girls to get attention.

Can it work? First hand experience tells me yes. But nothing beats going out and the physical presence.

trp_que · 2014-08-13T16:57:32+00:00

My strategy with tinder and online dating in general is not to over invest in it. I typically only respond to girls that open me first. While I understand it likely means a lot of missed opportunities, I just simply don't care to put in the effort for tinder/online dating. I prefer to work on my game in a live setting. Over investing in tinder/online dating will force you to get lazy when it comes to improving your approaching skills.

If it is a girl I am attracted to, I can usually get a phone number out of them to set up a date within a few messages. Since they are messaging you first, it is pretty much guaranteed that you will succeed. The most important thing is to avoid having conversations with them over text. Exchange a few messages and then immediately go for the number to set up a date. When you haven't met in person to build attraction, the texting back and forth in meaningless. Without an in person meeting you're essentially a faceless entity to them. Often times when I go for the number quickly, I even get responses like "a man that doesn't waste time, I like that" or something similar. Text based messaging shouldn't be used for conversation. Only setting up a time and place to meet. Simple.

You will find your success rate will go up substantially this way.

EDIT: Even if you do opt to continue opening girls on Tinder, the same concept applies. Go for their number ASAP and avoid conversation.

leodoestheopposite · 2014-08-19T14:16:03+00:00

This is working for me:

Your main pic should be of you at the beach, or working out, showing off your toned body. If you don't have a toned body, go hit the gym. There's a reason TRP advocates hitting the gym as the first step after swallowing the Red Pill
Once you have a match, get sexually right away: "Why haven't we had sex yet?" or "How about drinks tonight, my place or yours?" or similar messages.
Do not break frame
If getting resistance just say "It's Tinder, this is why we are here."

Title	Question about Tinder
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Upvotes	9
Comments	13
Date	August 13, 2014 1:40 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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