I am writing this at almost three in the morning because I cannot fall asleep. My mind is going a million miles a second and I have too much going on to calm down enough for sleep.
A few days ago one of my pledge brothers was arrested and thrown out of campus after a girl he hooked up with alleged that he raped her. This made all the local/ regional news and everyone on campus is talking about it. A few girls have come out on the news and cried that not enough is being done about sexual assault on campus (which is complete bullshit) and that they don't feel safe. As a result, it is expected that the campus will go down hard on my pledge brother and is helping the girl charge him criminally.
A few weeks earlier, another pledge brother was kicked out of the dorms and dropped by the fraternity after another girl accused him of sexual assault. She said that he pressured her and just like that his reputation across campus is serial rapist. I feel like it is only a matter of time before another pledge brother or even I get accused of sexual assault and will have to prove my innocence.
With both cases I do not know if my pledge brothers are innocent or not, but the issue remains: I am joining a fraternity at an extremely liberal university. It is only the second month of school and more sexual assaults are guaranteed to be reported. Even the older brothers of the fraternity are saying it has never been this bad.
Is it even worth getting your dick wet anymore? Why would you risk your entire future fucking some slag that can accuse you of rape the next morning?
The fraternity already has a negative image across campus: using roofies to fuck girls, fucking drunk girls, and now these two cases. While all of these are false, I am not sure if I want to be associated with that.
I love my pledge class and we have grown extremely close together. The second brother being dropped due to the sexual assault claim seems surreal and none of us believed it could happen to one of us.
I do not have any specific question; I am just struggling to decide what to do. I am now terrified of flirting with girls, let alone taking one back and fucking her. There is no way to protect yourself. Even with cameras surrounding every inch of the dorms, a girl can still claim that you never got consent, she took back her consent etc.
We have to sit through ridiculous seminars teaching us to NOT rape. We went through specific scenarios on how to ask for consent, how a girl is in no way able to consent once any amount of alcohol has entered her system, and how 1/5 women get raped on campus. Women are given all the power while men are being emasculated.
I read about it on TRP, but never on this scale. This is absolutely terrifying. There is a war against men and we are losing at an amazing scale.
I am at a loss for action; there is nothing I can do about it. I have lost any sexual attraction for girls on campus as any girl can lead to trouble with the campus. At this point I have no problem going monk mode for four years and regressing sexually to avoid a rape claim.
What must be done?
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Honestly sex is not worth that risk. Its a terrible time to be a white male in college. I've seen the same trend in my college town and it's only going to get worse.
Rape is an incredibly terrible crime noone should ever deal with. Alcohol consumption leads to Brown outs "where was I last night?" scenarios and young women and universities collectively hold men responsible for sexual consent.
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