Rejected LBJF

Leone_brt · 2020-08-13T10:11:09+00:00

If your male friends distanced because some bitch talked shit about you, they are neither males nor your friends.

IXseed · 2020-08-13T09:44:06+00:00

At the end of the day, all women want men who can set boundaries. So if you're unwilling to play games with this one bitch her friends are gonna see you as... a guy who don't play games. Now they could either wanna fuck you OR just wanna see if they can be the one to friend you up. I'd say go for it either way since you know what to do if they don't play ball.

SirKolbath · 2020-08-13T12:13:23+00:00

The guys who took her side were not your friends. Get better ones.
You handled it mostly correct. When I get a LJBF speech I simply respond with "I have plenty of friends. Good night." Normally I start getting contrite texts within three days. Either way, I'm not playing the game.
The truth is slowly coming out and the girls who heard the negative word about you are starting to hear it. While women clump like cat litter, they aren't stupid and they are attracted to frame. Since you held frame and basically ignored the bullshit from the first girl, this makes you seem attractive.
Whether or not I'd start fucking them depends on several factors, not the least of which is how much drama they're likely to bring into my life. I detest drama, so I avoid women likely to bring it to me.
I'm finding myself saying this more and more, unfortunately, but as our endorsed and flaired members depart for TRP.red, we're getting a lot of idiots here who think this is /relationships. Don't just take random advice from people here. Check their post history and make sure they're not posting from an account that's six months old and that the advice they give is in line with TRP philosophy.
Lastly, read the sidebar. Much of what you're looking for is in there.

FinancialThanks1 · 2020-08-13T10:04:05+00:00

The problem is that you were “friends” with her and then distanced yourself when she didn’t want to date you. Set the right precedent from the start

HurricaneHugues · 2020-08-13T13:32:30+00:00

"One of the guys who distanced himself apologised because they found a lot of the shit she was saying was bunch made up bullshit. I told him thanks for the apology but fuck off."

Good. Fuck him and the others. Quick to assume shit without coming directly to you first. Fair weather friends.

"Now here is where my question comes in. A lot of the girls have now started reaching out to me giving me heavy IOI'S (come to my house etc etc, shit like that)"

You're an idiot. Theyre no different from the guys that betrayed you. They will stab you in the back any chance they get. You're blonded by the possibility of getting pussy. You forgot that they turned their backs on you as soon as the weather turned grey on the forecast channel. They're not even deserving of a good fuck.

MrNeverDryDick · 2020-08-13T16:15:07+00:00

Same shit happened to me. Honestly reads as if I would write it years ago.

I did what you did and cut them out. But being exiled from the group forced me to make new relationships bc I wasn’t gonna sit around and let a bitch and some shitty male “friends” leave me mopey.

So by the time they came around I essentially told them nah I’m good. Several girls in the group too. One her roommate which would’ve been funny but still nah. My reasoning was they all had plenty of time to be a friend or wanna ride my dick. They don’t get to decide to be friends now. They should’ve made the effort when they were all out partying forcing me to go game by myself.

But it all worked out in the end bc I was fucking multiple women due to the situation and being forced to network. So telling them no didn’t really cost me any pussy.

If you do end up fucking them, please comment back and lemme know how it goes for you. I’m curious if there would be more drama from that one hoe

Jdamoftruth · 2020-08-13T12:41:44+00:00

She took this really bad

Not your problem anymore...but this is typical

And is it a bad idea to fuck them?

Not at all

PrometheusRisesIN · 2020-08-13T09:44:09+00:00

Never a bad idea to fuck them.

Proceed with IOI, close, escalate and sex. If you are an amazing person girls would love you be your lover.

Secret_Twitch · 2020-08-13T14:48:18+00:00

Sounds like a LARP to me.

Title	Rejected LBJF
Author	ThrewMeAway909
Upvotes	6
Comments	24
Date	August 13, 2020 9:35 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/askTRP/rejected-lbjf.51051 https://theredarchive.com/post/51051

Comments

"One of the guys who distanced himself apologised because they found a lot of the shit she was saying was bunch made up bullshit. I told him thanks for the apology but fuck off."

"Now here is where my question comes in. A lot of the girls have now started reaching out to me giving me heavy IOI'S (come to my house etc etc, shit like that)"