Religion as a negotiating tactic

flatox · 2015-02-04T16:40:06+00:00

No woman who tells you straight out that she is virgin, is a virgin.

An actual virgin never bursts it out as an achievement.

secret_barber · 2015-02-04T17:00:37+00:00

"saving myself up for marriage"

Agree & amplify this nonsense. The fact that she is knowingly meeting up with a vocal sinner (such as yourself) is a very strong sign that this is pure bullshit - treat it as a joke.

RPReloaded · 2015-02-04T16:35:27+00:00

This is usually a shit test in my experience. I have had a number of women say that only to fuck me like a Vegas whore the same night. I don't think I've gotten this one in a while. I always saw it as a sign I was being Beta, so she saw me as a provider BB instead of a AF, hence the "We don't fuck until you give me a ring" shit.

RP_Since_Birth · 2015-02-04T18:31:33+00:00

A woman who says that is statistically lying as only 2% (high estimate) wait till marriage.

tatebequert · 2015-02-04T16:26:03+00:00

Move out of your town, buddy.

AnarchyBurger101 · 2015-02-04T18:19:32+00:00

Usually that means she's waiting for her quasi alpha ex-boyfriend to get out of jail, or to see if he makes parole. Meanwhile, said ex-boyfriend is probably in prison getting spitroasted so he can score dope/cigarettes/stamps/whatever. ;)

Roshambo_USMC · 2015-02-04T17:34:06+00:00

Guys on Christian Mingle are cleaning up for the same reason this can be A & A'd, it is bullshit and a thinly-veiled shit test - especially considering they ante up by joining online dating sites or flirt with you in person (so you know she's considering sex) and then they usually just end up using this as last minute resistance. In the USA most women are given this weak card early on so they always have it. If you're given this then know it works on all her orbiters at church & social groups. Also know that if she's still using it on you then she's really no match for game at all then.

As others stated, just A&A at first but if she becomes a plate and starts using a variation of this to try and pin you down to a LTR then soft nexting usually works very well. Religious women can be entertaining in this way, but you may find it just isn't worth your while to plate them at all since they'll have issues hamstering how her deity doesn't approve of her "activities".

Source: grew up in Christian grade schools and went to a boarding high school. Was able to breach the security system of the girls dorm to see my GF and a few others over 4 years. Fun times were had, even from the most sincere at church. Also, dating a few later in life resulted in the same thing, just even moreso that they were free to let out all the repressed sexual tension.

RunawayGrain · 2015-02-04T20:46:36+00:00

"saving myself for marriage" is usually just her hamstering that she isn't a slut. Proceed as usual.

C00l_Guy · 2015-02-05T03:59:27+00:00

nohymennodiamond

Yes better than putting yourself at risk of having a failed marriage.

Aussify · 2015-02-06T20:59:13+00:00

Do you happen to live in western North Carolina? It's the exact same situation here. I deviate too far down a path that most women here would consider Satanic or whatever, so any woman's being a conservative, traditional Southern Baptist is a deal breaker for me. The thought of dating someone with those beliefs feels like nails on a chalkboard.

Title	Religion as a negotiating tactic
Author	OldPinkertonGoon
Upvotes	10
Comments	21
Date	February 4, 2015 4:01 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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